“the only ship that can never sink is a friendship.” – Wrong.
And yes, you can have a romantic relationship without actually having sex, but unless you’re asexual you’re probably going to discuss it and want to engage in it at some point. If you’re not sure of what kind of relationship you’re in it’s best to just talk to your p.artner and find out their thoughts on the matter.
I don’t feel as if I’m asexual. I went to an asexual chat room to ask questions and they said asexuality is not being attracted to anyone. I am attracted to people, but my body does not follow. My mind wants it.
I’m not sure what to say; maybe you don’t feel comfortable enough around them yet? Perhaps if you spend more time getting to know them you’d begin to find them more desirable sexually.
And Opacity, I thought so too, and that's why it never bothered me too much until recently. I was seeing this guy for a while and we waited like a month and a half and i really did want to do it I just.. my body didn't want to. That's when i realized it was fucked up, because I did like him a lot, and still do, regardless that he ended things with me because of it.
There’s a whole ‘nother world that exists out there once you turn off your computer and venture outdoors.
There are people, there is sunshine, there is life beyond your computer. Radical notion, yeah, but it’s true.
It’s okay, I was just more confused where that came from, but I see what you mean. You typed that in response to me going to a chat, before I mentioned the guy in person. Don’t be sorry.
@dead Perhaps you just weren’t compatible sexually. It happens. I had a huge crush on someone I met in school once, but for some reason I couldn’t picture sleeping with them, even though I was attracted to them in every other way. So, I didn’t try pursuing a relationship with them (although things were kinda weird between us in that we had ‘more than friends’ chemistry).
There’s a lot more to it than that which is why I classify it as abnormal. Kinda awkward to talk about though. It’s not quite other people because it has to do with myself as well.
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the only ship that can never sink is a friendship.
Knowledge.
Matt I just want your love
who are you?
Wear a bow tie 😛
🙁
“the only ship that can never sink is a friendship.” – Wrong.
And yes, you can have a romantic relationship without actually having sex, but unless you’re asexual you’re probably going to discuss it and want to engage in it at some point. If you’re not sure of what kind of relationship you’re in it’s best to just talk to your p.artner and find out their thoughts on the matter.
I don’t feel as if I’m asexual. I went to an asexual chat room to ask questions and they said asexuality is not being attracted to anyone. I am attracted to people, but my body does not follow. My mind wants it.
I’m not sure what to say; maybe you don’t feel comfortable enough around them yet? Perhaps if you spend more time getting to know them you’d begin to find them more desirable sexually.
you are asexual. A-Sexual-Goddess.
Boom.
Matt <3333
And Opacity, I thought so too, and that's why it never bothered me too much until recently. I was seeing this guy for a while and we waited like a month and a half and i really did want to do it I just.. my body didn't want to. That's when i realized it was fucked up, because I did like him a lot, and still do, regardless that he ended things with me because of it.
There’s a whole ‘nother world that exists out there once you turn off your computer and venture outdoors.
There are people, there is sunshine, there is life beyond your computer. Radical notion, yeah, but it’s true.
Morris, I’m not sure where you’re coming from with that. I do have a life outside of the computer and friends.
Sorry. I type slowly.
It’s okay, I was just more confused where that came from, but I see what you mean. You typed that in response to me going to a chat, before I mentioned the guy in person. Don’t be sorry.
@dead Perhaps you just weren’t compatible sexually. It happens. I had a huge crush on someone I met in school once, but for some reason I couldn’t picture sleeping with them, even though I was attracted to them in every other way. So, I didn’t try pursuing a relationship with them (although things were kinda weird between us in that we had ‘more than friends’ chemistry).
There’s a lot more to it than that which is why I classify it as abnormal. Kinda awkward to talk about though. It’s not quite other people because it has to do with myself as well.
Well, if you have physical issues you can try looking to Google, or perhaps visiting a doctor. They might be able to give you helpful advice.
That’s what I’m trying to do next. But if I can’t find a solution to it… honestly I’m going to kill myself. Wouldn’t be able to accept myself
Without sex it’s a waste of time.
any relationship with you is a waste of time