Hello everyone. I have been depressed for some time now. I’ve been to the hospital for it and stayed for about a week. I am married and my wife knows of my depression. while in the hospital they said that I have a general mood disorder and bi polar tendencies. With the mood disorder my mood can change in an instant. It can be triggered just by someone getting snippy with me or giving me attitude and I can help it.
The marriage overall has been good. But as of late there is a lot of stress and both of us are depressed. About a week ago we got in a little fight and after she left the house I was still very upset even though we talked about it and resolved it. So I hit the door upstairs and put a hole in it. Now after my wife came home she said she can’t take it anymore and went to stay at get mom’s when I was at work(which I hate my job) I didn’t even get to see her. She has barely talked to me and she says that she doesn’t know if she still wants to be with me. And when we talk I say I love you and sometimes she says it’s back ok but most of the time she mumbles is. And I ask if she really does and she says yes. I have said I’m sorry. She started seeing her therapist again and I’m pretty sure it’s over. I looked at her internet history and all she has searched is dissolution of marriage, courts, storage units, and apartments. But she keeps telling me she doesn’t know even though I’m pretty sure she had made up her mind. I’m at a complete loss. When we took our wedding vowels we said for better or for worse and in sickness and in health. I obviously have a mental sickness. And she doesn’t even seem to want to try and fix it.
I just don’t know want to do anymore, I’m so depressed. I just want to end it all please help.
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First very important advice I want to tell you is that don’t produce kids with her or any other until you are quite sure that you will be able to take care of them. Lots of people even if they have problems produce kids and suffer later. If the people of previous generation were cautious for the future that whether they will be able to take care of their kids, then many of us would not have to suffer. Many of us are suffering because of the sexual instincts of parents. So please don’t repeat the mistake of others.
And i can understand your pain.
I thinks that instead of producing their own kids, people should adopt the kids who don’t have parents or help other people who are destitute .
Oh no we were deff not going to have kids to “fix” this. I just don’t know what to do. I feel like my whole life is falling apart and there is nothing I can do to stop it. I feel suicide is the only way out of all this pain.
Maybe seeing a marriage counsellor will help. It seems that both of you have some mental health problems and these types of problems causes difficulties in social life so you both should realize that its not the mistake of yours or her and stop blaming each other if you do so .
That’s exactly what I want to do moon shine. I feel like it’s worth trying to save but she doesn’t seem to even want to try. It’s like she found her out and is just gonna try and run away from the problem