I guess I was never meant to be born and live. My mom was an addict and she had this brief fling with my dad, they weren’t in love, she didn’t have a job and she was an addict. I wish she would have aborted me. But she didn’t. I was born at 7 months, probably due to her injecting God only knows what.
ALL my life I was MISERABLE, my childhood wasn’t that bad but as soon as I went to middle school people started bullying me, telling me I was ugly, that I looked like an ape, that I was hideous. And I was all alone, no friends because people pushed me away because of my appearence. All I did was crying and getting back home being by myself. I was pretty good in school and that was my only satisfaction. My mom died when I was 12 and she left me with an aunt who is extremely narrow minded and ignorant, who made my life so miserable, who never supported me and always said I was ugly as other people said. I once got told that I should surgically redo all myself, then he added “No, I am joking, you have a nice figure” implying my face is hideous
High school came and things started improving because kids didn’t make fun of me anymore, and I had the illusion I was okay again, that things CHANGED. I had self esteem again and people looked up to me because I was very good in school. I wasn’t happy, things were still not that , but they weren’t that bad either. My self esteem kept being crushed and I got the attention of men in the worst possible way, and you all know what I am hinting at. I am so disgusted by my behaviour, but more than that I am disgusted by my life, from the start. But then, let’s continue: I got accepted in one of the best colleges of the country and I was over the moon, I thought my life was finally on track. But had to drop out due to my fmaily not sending me enough money to survive. I remeber I was very suicidal back then as I felt empty, had panic attacks, I postponed my suicide so many times, I remember wating for my favourite show to be over, an English show dealing with mental illnesses and body images issues, just as the ones I have. I reflected myself so much in the character and I cried so much over it. EVERY TIME(I plan on doing a rewatch before killing myself).I went abroad and tried to work, a family member accomodated me, but as I couldn’t find a job in less than a month she basically told me I had to leave and humiliated me for seeking the attention of men online. I was again crushed, and I ran away hoping I could just starve in the streets and be forgotten. They found me and I went back home, my family pressured me to enrol again after I dropped out in another(less prestigious University) so I did. BAD MISTAKE. At the age of 20, me, UNLUCKY AS I AM, got bullied. Seriously, who gets bullied at 20? It was so humiliating, I was so depressed I just wanted to start over and find new friends, I never had friends, I wanted a full life, I wanted to feel loved and do good but it ruined it for me .The self esteem issues started again and I started having panic attacks, I didn’t go to lectures anymore and wasted another year of my life. But that’s not even all of it I have an autoimmune disease and I suspect it’s draining all my energy but I can’t get any treatment for it yet(I have to wait it causes damage to the organ it affects). Not to mention I got told I look way older than my actual age, my skin is thinning and is very dry. I also have atopic dhermatitis. I mean CAN IT GET ANY WORSE? It seems that when I say that sentence I challenge the Universe to do worse. I really wanted to move to a specific place to find a job(high unemployment rate where I am from) but unfortunately I now have social anxiety and after this horrific year that reminded me of how hideous I am, I would rather kill myself than have the self esteem to move to another place and start a new life there. Seeing the pattern of my life, I am pretty sure something bad will happen even in that place. I am proactive, I want to pull myself together but so much crap comes my way that I don’t even know where to start.
life FAILED me, I know I can’t have it all good, but I didn’t expect to have it all bad either. Can one single thing go well? Could have I had at least one thing that I like and, morelike, OTHER PEOPLE like about myself? There seems to be none, my life is unraveling and I hate it so much, all the problems, all the jinx, all the shit that I’d rather kill myself than live the 3rd worst year of my life. I started glorifying death, I see it as the light at the end of the tunnel. what will make it okay, the thing that will save me from all this pain I am living. I know things will worsen, they will because I don’t even have the confidence to go out anymore. And I will never be able to pull myself together.
Life is always being unfair with me, and death, even if bad, at least is fair. What’s the point anyway? Aren’t I gonna die in a few decades anyway? Why should I stick around? So people can use me as their personal relief for their frustration? I was unlucky from the beginning, let’s face it. I was born to a couple who did not want me(my dad abandoned me), in the worst fucking time(crisis, lack of jobs) and in the worst place(country deeply affected from it). Maybe a job would have helped me, but why do I bother? I don’t even have the strength to wake up in the morning
I can already see my future, my life will keep taking the course it’s already taken: I will age very fast and people, as they always did, will use my appearence to bring me down. I won’t be able to finish any University course and I’ll probably add even more pain on top of the amazing 20 years I lived.
I am ready to die and finally be well, in nothingness, as I was meant to be in the first place. That’s what I long for and luckily enough I came up with a fairly good plan. I can’t wait to die and finally be free. I don’t want to change my mind, because every time I do I end up regretting it.
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Honestly the only thing I didn’t regret living for is music, my pain made it ever more deep. My music taste is very refined, Brian Eno will be the soundtrack of my death
Cool vent. I’m sorry you’ve had a shitty start/support, and not for a lack of trying either. Whilst I can’t even begin to comprehend your situation, is there any scope for changing your surroundings, you mentioned moving areas for better job prospects?
Before your post I had never heard of Brian Eno. I youtubed Third Uncle and was pleasantly surprised by it 🙂 …so I guess at worst, your post has brought some interesting new sounds to a bod far far away: thank you! I know it’s not much, but its something 🙂
I’ll just give you a hug… *hug* I’m sorry for your pain.