ok everyone needs to back up and calm down here for a second. Wndozh8er must have removed his last post because others here are accusing him of seeking attention and playing the victim. He was hurt and so was I over something personal just between us, but we working out the differences and it’s no ones business but ours. Just please don’t hate on him or change your opinions of him because he speaks what’s on his mind. He is not and never has been a drama starter or attention whore. Please stop treating him as such and posting stuff about it. He’s a huge support here for all of us, no matter how long he is here. I don’t appreciate the hate he has gotten since he posted about suicide. Everyone here has been thru shit…he’s a great guy. We all know that.
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Thank you so much! I love you and I’m sorry if I caused any trouble. I was emotionally distraught and was posting how I was feeling. I never ment to hurt anyone. Thanks for having my back. The last thing I want to do is cause any problems or come off as starting drama. Thst just ain’t me
Guys, just to clarify again — Zalien was not talking about him.
Just wanted to leave a PS (as always): my comment on zalien’s post wasn’t about windows either. I know zalien personally, we are very close friends, and what a kind soul zalien has… So I can assure you guys that that post wasn’t about windowd. This was just a misunderstanding.
Lots of light and love to you guys.
Calamity it is great for you stick up for him. He does indeed leave great things here. But when someone does something that looks bad we say something here. Everyone needs to be comfortable here and if something is posted or a comment left that makes others uneasy and uncomfortable than it should be said. No one has said he doesn’t do good here. But doing good doesn’t mean that when something is said that seems off people shouldn’t say something. It is a great community in here and we look for out for one another…both ways…compliments and, when needed, a bit of criticism. No one said anything harsh or degrading towards him.
I was writing a reply to that last post when it was deleted. I don’t think anyone meant to be unkind… they just wanted him to look at things from another perspective. Things can sound harsher when they’re written down, but anyone who tries to understand and write about someone else’s situation is only concerned about the people involved.
And although it’s unfortunate that people inevitably get hurt sometimes, it IS other people’s business if they post about it. That works for good more than bad, and thankfully you always have the option to delete posts when the conversations make people uncomfortable or cause them more pain.
I’ve been on and off, so I’m unsure of what’s going on…but I understand if it’s probably none of my business. I just hope you two are alright.
Like I said to him, if what I wrote didn’t apply to him he should disregard it. I’ve just seen a lot of posts on SP where someone unfairly called out another person (a member of the site) and blamed them for something else that happened, when the truth was that the responsibility was upon both parties. (I’ve probably even done it myself, unfortunately.)
My post wasn’t personally about Wyndozh8er as I don’t know him, this was just a response to this kind of situation. I don’t expect everyone to agree with what I wrote, I only wanted anyone who might have felt unfairly attacked on SP (or IRL) to see that they weren’t alone, and that they should stand up for themselves if they feel bullied, or try to be more understanding if they were the ones who had misinterpreted someone else. That’s all.
zalien I think this is in more in response to me not you. I commented that to me it looked like this…he leaves posts abt suiciding alot sooner. On post a 19 yr, who comments that he is 31, states she thinks things are moving too fast. From her comments and his responses it seems this is what has triggered he choice to suicide soon. I commented that that it isn’t nice to make a 19 feel responsible for causing your early death which by posting all this on a site she frequents it would have done. I further stated that from previous posts it is obvious he could have emailed friends from here and talked this thru instead of posting a guilt trip where she would see it. I did say if I had misunderstood anything I was sorry but that is exactly how it was looking to me. Right after, the posts were deleted and this one made. Sooo I would say this is directed at me. Which I am totally fine with as I call like I see it and to me I was standing up for a 19yr old girl who uses a suicide site and doesn’t need that kind of guilt. No one does. This site is a community and that should be considered when posting here.
Just in case, i’ll clarify, my response in zalien’s post was alluring to stuff that happened in here (where i live) this week, and i also understood her post as a general “i don’t like this sort of situations” thing and not as an attack to windows8. I was not referring to windows8, since i don’t know what that situation is about (other than him getting really upset and hurt about the whole thing).
I noticed that too and yeah, although I don’t know her I was concerned about her (especially since she seems to be new here), so I said to him earlier that I hoped he wasn’t threatening suicide to make others feel bad. Now, obviously I don’t know the story behind all this, but I do know that in the past, people HAVE made posts threatening suicide and blaming others for their despair (i.e., “playing the victim game”). So if Wndozh8er isn’t like those people, that’s fine, but my post was in response to this kind of scenario regardless.
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I have seen the same here abt the victim game and felt your post was a welcome reminder that that kind of behaviour just causes more destruction and isn’t wanted here. I was glad you posted it.
I’m sorry it didn’t work out
Thanks guys. Everything is fine, no hate, no hard feelings and thanks for being concerned about me. He’s a great guy and was just hurt, he didn’t mean any harm. We’ve all been through hell here and we should all have each other’s backs…so thank you again.
Well since everyone apparently stated that they weren’t “attacking” wndowz for anything… Then what is the basis of this post showing him being hurt…? So who is playing victim here…?
prob an impulse post. I do alot of things on impulse. Hope i don’t suicide on impulse