Sorry my loves that I haven’t been posting a positive challenge daily, but I am back at it! Today’s question is: What is a character trait you love about yourself, and what is one character trait you would love to change? Good luck my loves 🙂
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Glad to see you post again. I was wondering if you were okay.
I don’t know if they count as character traits, but the first one I like to come into my head was caring. One to change would be… I can’t think of a word for it, but jealousy/turning a positive or neutral situation around to somehow remind myself of being lonely. I’m well aware that it’s one of my most damaging qualities at the moment.
The one character trait I like is my ability to direct my hatred and rage towards myself instead of directing it at other people.
The one thing I’d change is my optimism. I always seem to hold onto false hope that my life is somehow going to improve but it never can and it only depresses me that I can not just give up hope and accept that this pathetic life is all I will ever know.
I was laughing so hard here… I probably spent five minutes trying to find a good personality trait I like about myself. Lol, I even asked a friend if he could tell me what was my best personality trait. Oh god… Honestly I like how I always try to show a light hearted attitude towards life, even though I’m a terrible perfectionist that thinks too much about tiny, unimportant things and demands too much of herself. I made a list of things I wanted to accomplish/improve and one of them was “stop obsessing over your typos if you’re just rambling on forums”, lol.
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Good: cooking blintzes and torts while in inversion boots.
Change: new jumper on partially reabsorbed twin.
absolutely correct lol
Good trait…
*thinks for 2 days straight without moving*
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i guess that would be my sense of the absurd, because it has help me cope with a lot of stuff through the years, bad trait? my sense of the absurd, because it has gotten me into some deep troubles at times, lol.
Here is another for each day: you’re caring and very funny, all despite bad circumstances.
I…ehrm… etto… mmm… *blushes* thank you! same could be said about you tho, so right back at you 🙂
Good: my capacity for boundless love of others.
Change: my incapacity for loving myself.
Everything else is either easy to acquire or easy to forgive.
Well…for me I love that I’m rather quick witted. As for what I wish I could change…I wish I didn’t have doubt when someone else compliments me. I feel like they’re just lying or saying it to just make me feel better. How could anyone think I’m awesome? Stuff like that
I am so glad I thought of this because many of you mention it was hard for you to find traits you love about yourselves, which makes me very sad. Truth is, all of you are incredible individuals who shed light on the lives of others through incredible advice, puns, jokes, etc., and I hope you all can soon realize how beautiful you are, both inside and out. Thank you loves 🙂