Might be wrong on this one, but it’s breaking up with someone when they need help is a really shitty thing to do, so i don’t think you’re the piece of shit on the situation you’re describing… i’d say it’s all the opposite. If the reason he used are what you mention (you bring him down)… that just further proves the point. Sorry that you’re having to go through that tho, i do hope you get the help you need.
I agree with Mf. Even if he felt like he had to do it, it sounds like he was insensitive about it. If you’re in a bad way and needing help then you need someone more caring and resilient to be in a relationship with. It isn’t your fault. I’m sorry you’re having to go through something like that on top of everything else going on right now. It won’t stay as bad as it feels now. x
It’s exactly as commented above. Relationships are more than hanging out, eating together, and good times. Life often involves challenges and the person you’re dating should be there for you. They might not be able to solve your problems or do anything about them but, at a minimum, they should support you. I’ve had girlfriends tell me that I was wrong when I was. But they stayed with me and I appreciated that.
You can’t control the poor decisions of others. In time, you’ll find someone who offers unconditional love.
I’ve experienced it and, because of a decision that I made, lost it. A job opportunity had become available several hundred miles away. One of my friends from college had given me a call asking me to come down, take a look around, and attend an interview. I got the job and, within a few weeks, moved several states away. My girlfriend didn’t want to move just yet but we were confident that technology (email, SMS, video, etc.) would help us stay together. As good as technology is, it just isn’t the same as an in-person relationship. We made the difficult decision to break-up.
That relationship was one of the best experiences that I’ve had. In hindsight, perhaps I shouldn’t have moved. Later on, I realized what I had lost: unconditional love.
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Might be wrong on this one, but it’s breaking up with someone when they need help is a really shitty thing to do, so i don’t think you’re the piece of shit on the situation you’re describing… i’d say it’s all the opposite. If the reason he used are what you mention (you bring him down)… that just further proves the point. Sorry that you’re having to go through that tho, i do hope you get the help you need.
I agree with Mf. Even if he felt like he had to do it, it sounds like he was insensitive about it. If you’re in a bad way and needing help then you need someone more caring and resilient to be in a relationship with. It isn’t your fault. I’m sorry you’re having to go through something like that on top of everything else going on right now. It won’t stay as bad as it feels now. x
It’s exactly as commented above. Relationships are more than hanging out, eating together, and good times. Life often involves challenges and the person you’re dating should be there for you. They might not be able to solve your problems or do anything about them but, at a minimum, they should support you. I’ve had girlfriends tell me that I was wrong when I was. But they stayed with me and I appreciated that.
You can’t control the poor decisions of others. In time, you’ll find someone who offers unconditional love.
Do you really believe in unconditional love distant?
I do.
I’ve experienced it and, because of a decision that I made, lost it. A job opportunity had become available several hundred miles away. One of my friends from college had given me a call asking me to come down, take a look around, and attend an interview. I got the job and, within a few weeks, moved several states away. My girlfriend didn’t want to move just yet but we were confident that technology (email, SMS, video, etc.) would help us stay together. As good as technology is, it just isn’t the same as an in-person relationship. We made the difficult decision to break-up.
That relationship was one of the best experiences that I’ve had. In hindsight, perhaps I shouldn’t have moved. Later on, I realized what I had lost: unconditional love.
That makes me hopeful. Thank you.
You’ll experience it. I have no doubt.
No I think that ship has sailed my friend.
Never say never.
Things often happen when you aren’t looking or when you least expect it.
Thanks so much everyone! I’ve been in the mental hospital the least few days and it was so nice to so everyone’s supportive comments! thanks
Oh welcome back! (I think? is that what I should say?)
haha yeah thats fine
Did they give you a truck load of medication to take home with you?
~insert truck back up noise~
Back of dump truck dumps load of loose pills on MissDysphoria.
Known also as a load of antiTRUCKpressents.
~insert snare drum~
I’ll be here all night, tip your waiters.
hahah nice! yes! plenty of happy pills for me!
It must have been one hell of a load of pills since it took you two days to answer this post.
HAHAHAHA…yeah I’ll be here all night. Tip your waiters.