It’s my senior year and I’m afraid of losing touch with my friends… That’s all I can think about and it scares me. I don’t want to let them go like some of my old friends. Please, how do I keep updated and in touch with them when I’m done with high school?
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Make a commitment to them and yourselves to contact each other regularly (weekly?) just to check in.
The older you get the easier it is to let days, weeks, months, and even years slip by. So make sure you have a plan. Set a day to catch up. It’s not hard, but it takes commitment.
You can do it. 🙂
I’ve encountered the same problem. If you have their phone numbers or another system in which to keep in contact with them I would recommend making sure to try to message them at least once per day. I generally would just offer a generic greeting. It mostly seems to work, I do hope this was of use to you. Graduating is a really horrifying thought, it almost feels like losing a family. I wish you the best in keeping in contact with the people who matter to you ^_^
Don’t worry so much for the future. Just keep talking with them as much as you want. There are so many medias today, that there is always a way. But it is probable that you will get distant with them, not because it must be so or because they are going to go away from you, but because you are going to have new interests that are going to keep you busy. It’s an interesting thing to go through. But if you are scared then you may make it more difficult for yourself. Live things as they come. You won’t loose your friends as by magic, it doesn’t happen that way. Distance is not what damages friendships.