How would you mourn me? (A candle, a lantern, a flower, ect.?)
What memory would you keep of me?
What would you do to keep me “alive” even after death?
Would you miss me?
Would it hurt?
Would you give up because I gave up?
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These are good questions? for anybody who is considering suicide. > how will the people left behind react? How will they mourn? what will they do next? One thing I hope is that if I ever commit suicide > I really hope that nobody after me goes out and does the same thing.
I honestly think people in my life would mourn for about 2 weeks and then they would just sell all my stuff and move on with life. I dont think the damage would be that great. I dont think much would change in the live of people I eave behind. Thats just how I see it. They SAY now that they want m e alive > but if I was to go away I dont think the damage would be all that great. Im probably more of a burden to people then they are willing to admitt.
I’d think of you as the pretty girl who was sexually abused by a mother’s partner and in turn fucked up her life and caused her to end it… Story closed I’ll just puff a ciggi and have a joint maybe a beer to and think fuck I wish I could have helped her. Would be cool if you could use your pain and experience to help others.
By listening to the song i will post in a few minutes. 😉
I would keep that cool jacket as my memory.
Ideally : help others in your situation. In reality : drink until I pass out.
Yes.
Yes.
No! Not because you gave up but because i will be left with no choice? I hope it doesn’t come to that.
Wait, to be honest i would think of every one i can remember that did this yes..why not? They were an example. Some courage i will never have.
Comment in moderation??? WTF is so trying to tell me to drink in moderation?? Lol
LOL
Before you did id ask you please not to die. I wouldn’t want to mourn you id rather that it not come to that.
Yes, how about you don’t pass away. Please?
^^This.
1. I would probably mourn by going back over all the posts and comments you had ever made, while I played some somber but very beautiful music in the background. I would be very sad that you never got to adopt that kid you wanted.
2. For some reason what really sticks with me is that video of you driving while you were distraught. It strikes me that I feel the same way during my own “depression drives”. Sometimes I get in these extremely dark headspaces and I drive the back roads… slowly zoning out. My head is a scary place to be during those times. Your video reminded me of that.
Also, I’m with passionforalways; that jacket is very cool.
3. I would try something daring but relatively safe, that I haven’t done so far in my life: Yes, I’m talking about trying anchovies on pizza. 😉
4. Of COURSE we would all miss you here. Don’t ever doubt that.
5. Of COURSE. There are SP people (presumably ‘gone’ now, though sometimes we wonder) who still hurt my heart whenever I remember them. If they’re dead, I grieve for that. If they’re not actually dead but just pretending, then I’m sad for the amount of crap life gave them where they feel they need to hide like that.
6. It would certainly factor into whatever decision I eventually made, YES.
Isn’t it? I want to find one like hers. Bri, you are an inspiration in many ways.
But finding someone like you Bri…that is impossible.
I might start by re-reading this post. http://suicideproject.org/2016/03/my-last-post-for-the-night/
You were obviously in a terrible place that day, but you took the time to write a heartfelt note to about 15 people. That’s amazing. I was still lurking at that point but that was one of the things that inspired me to join the site, because I realized that there are some incredible people on here.
I might start by re-reading your March 22 post “My last post for the night.”
You were obviously in a terrible place that day, but you took the time to write a heartfelt note to about 15 people. That’s amazing. I was still lurking at that point but that was one of the things that inspired me to join the site, because I realized that there are some incredible people on here.
(BTW, sorry if this is a double post, the first one got flagged for moderation for some reason)