I’m tired, I will keep this short…I have tried to get through this, no matter what I do, it is getting more and more difficult! Friday, my gf tells me she doesn’t know if she’s in love with me – my perception of her behaviors for the last 2 months and then hearing that, she’s done with me. I’ve already alienated my family back home, their mouths cause me that much more heartache. My girlfriend, gave me all of my driver, my ambition, my desire to succeed and it’s all gone now. I am starting to feel the courage that I need to just get out of the whole mess that we call life. Perhaps I am responsible for my own circumstances, there are changes that I cannot accept nor will they be easy to deal with a top of everything else. I’ve failed my best friend, she deserves the best, I am not. Here I sit realizing it’s okay – the storm may pass, but the scars will always exist, I can’t do it any more.
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You’re right, the storm will pass, but the scars will always exist. Everyone has their own scars, and the best we can do is to learn to live with them. Also, the scars are only a very small part of you, don’t let it control you. Remember the storm will pass, stay strong.
Jax,
I know my pain doesn’t ease yours anymore than yours would stop mine, but you are not alone in this.
I’ve read some of your other posts and your words parallel mine in some ways, yet in some ways the exact opposite.
Whether we do it intentionally or not, when we give those we love complete control of us, such as the other person being our best friend, our support, our strength, etc, if things start to go wrong, it can destroy us. Hence the scars you mentioned.
I don’t necessarily believe the BS about time healing our wounds. I think it’s more like learning to live again with the scars…