I’ve posted here before but another reason life sucks is I’m a dateless virgin. I could attract a girl with my looks, some females have shown interest without me trying but I’m pathetic and have nothing to offer, a boring pathetic life and nothing to even talk about. I don’t think I should even embarrass myself in trying to date. I’m used to isolation and no friends or company 24/7. I’m just angry, I need female experience but I’m pathetic and ugly. I’d rather die a virgin than settle for a girl I don’t find attractive. Soon I will be 27, why I continue to even live I don’t fucking know. I don’t see me ever trying because only the most attractive females get my interest, ones that would have nothing to do with a pathetic loner virgin like me.
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your to picky, beauty is on the inside not the outside.
That’s easy for you to say. Of course you don’t know what he’s going through
i probably don’t, all i know is he’s lonely and won’t give anyone a chance and “rather die a virgin than settle for a girl I don’t find attractive.”
Not everyone is built the same way. That’s a shallow way of thinking as well.
Bro, it sounds like you’re just lacking self-confidence. You said it yourself that you can attract a girl with your looks alone. You’re the one who thinks of yourself as ugly. And you saving your virginity for someone you’d want to have sex with is def respectable. Believe in yourself more and if you honestly think you yourself are boring then go do some stuff that can be fun. Which is to say break out of your bubble a bit on some activities that you may not have considered. If you think that the person you’re talking to finds you boring that too may be due to the lack of confidence or you just not doing anything and being a lifeless shell. Also we all got embarrassing stories and those tend to end up interesting. You can use those awkward/weird/etc. stories as a means to make the next person laugh or something. Failing is okay. Don’t give up without trying. I can’t say it won’t hurt to fail but never trying tends to be a longer lasting pain that persists as opposed to a sharp pain that goes away quicker. (This is all hypothetical as the sharp pain can always remind you of that failed incident until you learn to laugh it off or become successful in what you were trying to do).
I am 7 years younger than you. I was desperate for a girl too. But Somehow I don’t feel the need to do anything with anyone anymore. I like being a virgin and I will die as one.
Sorry I can’t give you any nice advice. But like fishy said, you might lack confidence. Maybe you should try to stop thinking so much and just do what you feel like doing. If you see a girl you like, know if she’s available and then talk to her. It will feel better.
Getting a girl won’t help. I thought love was the answer to all my problems, but now I have a beautiful girlfriend and wanna die more than ever before. There are issues that accompany being in a relationship. You don’t think of them before. If you have low self-esteem, you’ll be wounded easily and jealous easily. It builds on for stress. Not to mention the annoyance of having your girl being hit on every single day by a large array of guys. I’m lucky to have her, but she’s unlucky to have me and that is where my issue begins.
If I had to give advice, I’d say meet a girl online. You’d have to skype of course so they know what you like and you know you’re not being catfished, but you’ll have a better chance. I met my girlfriend playing video games, and it just evolved from there. Maybe I just sound like an idiot, but having anxiety made going out to get someone impossible.
Oh and to loop back on the whole confidence thing, yes, fix that. It makes it hard to get a girl, and it’ll make being in a relationship even harder. Trust me.
You don’t sound like an idiot to me, anxiety makes a lot of people unable to go out and get to know someone (Or unable to talk to people while they’re going out to try to pretend to have fun, like i do)
To Denied: I know how you feel. The few times i fell in love with someone they were either way out of my league or already with someone else. And reacting to someone’s interest if i’m not into them would make me feel like shit, because it’ll first feel like a lie, and then they’ll find out and get hurt.
Fuck those chemicals in our brains and that society who make us feel like shit if we don’t fuck someone as early as possible.
You should consider MGTOW and stop focusing on women so much being so many other things in life other than having a female partner.
Sexuality is a fruitful tree sir, so stop trying to pick fruit from a tree that’s out of your reach, expand your horizons, there are all sorts of trees to pick from. Trees with ladyboy fruits, trees with dark sultry fruits, trees with fruits that have accents, trees with fruits that enjoy shitting on your chest, at least this is what redtube has taught me.
Seriously explore your world, and open your eyes to every lady. Look at every lady as a possible mate, just consider them for a moment, and stop looking at the ripest fruit at the top of a tree, a tree too high to eat from.
I guess what I am trying to say is try out a she-male.