So, I’ve come to realise that even with the friends I have, I’ve never actually had any friends. I love the friends I have, but I always feel like I am doing something wrong and am sort of there just as an accessory. It’s not that I don’t think my friends dislike me or intentionally make me feel this way, but they seem really close to each other. I’m just here wanting to have close friendships like my friends have, but I’ve never had one.
I just don’t know… you know?
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i feel the exact same way
Most of the time I feel the same, I think friendships nowadays are a bit strange. People are very busy with their lives, everyone is very individualistic etc. Besides it is really hard to find people who share the same hobbies, point of view, character and so on… Hard to make close friendships nowadays because we don’t share much of our life with others. If you are blaming yourself, don’t, I believe it is hardly your fault.
What I find strange is that people need to “share the same hobbies, point of view, character and so on…” to be friends.
Can’t people be different yet compatible?
oh sure they can, but anyways finding someone so compatible that you want to share a lot with them is rare
Once was told that having friends is not what it’s cut out to be. Think you gotta run with pack or contribute more, think could be doing you a favor by including you in the group. If you don’t feel connected to group, chances are you’re going to drift farther apart from them.
I got drop by this couple because they were so busy with lives that they didn’t have time to worry about me. Friends was a waste of time. Like being locked between these wall.