Your negativity is what makes you ugly… Not your looks.
Your sense of humour… Your smile even when you are feeling Shitty inside… The way you bring your grandmother flowers every Sunday even after she’s passed… The way you open doors for strangers… The way you try to cheer up others when you yourself are down in the dumps… And all the other little things you do for others… That’s pure beauty right there.
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If anyone reads my posts, they’d probably think I’m a miserable bastard, cause i frequently write pretty depressing things. But i still have some love left in me. I show kindness to others and do my best not to offend anyone. (still fuck up though quite a bit) not mentioning names, but sorry anyway.
I agree with you Sister on the things you mention though. I think the problem is, we don’t tend to notice a lot of the little good things.
Like whats that saying: You have a bad dinner and 10 people pass on a bad review. But only 4 people pass on a good one? I think life is like that. We remember the crap and pass it on more often than the good. (apart from when we’re feeling nostalgiac and forget the bad haha
Fuck it, i’m rambling yet again.
Peace Sister, ty for the reminder.
Aw, great. It means that I have to lie. :>
It is commendable to help/uplift others when you yourself are down but I disagree with what really does constitute “ugly” in our American society. Our society is so shallow when it comes to physical appearance. This has been proven in many studies. Example-attractive people committing crimes and getting off easier or completely, etc. I see many who won’t even talk to others because of race, physical appearance, etc. Many won’t even be friends with someone if they don’t consider them attractive. You can tell by the way such people travel in packs of the same.
Definitely your feelings can change how you are perceived by others but not always. Everyone at work likes me because I’m helpful and have a witty sense of humor and I lift everyone up. What they don’t know is I am miserable inside and I elevate everyone because I can’t stand their negativity compounded with my own. Otherwise I would feel 10 times as bad. I manipulate the environment for myself.
Yes this is the definition of beautiful/ugly that I go by. I don’t care if someone is a million pounds overweight and missing some parts, if the have an inner brightness I want to get close to them. On the other hand someone could be a movie star but if they are negative and hateful I want nothing to do with them. In my eyes beauty/ugliness is a choice.
Yep, I’m sure Quasimodo could find a lover if he just put on a smile!
What a narrow perspective you have. This isn’t just about fucking, it’s about beauty. Some of us know the difference.
Did I SAY it was about “fucking”?! 😀 I guess to you being lovers is all about “fucking”! So much for beauty!
I don’t debate people who take lessons from Donald Trump.
You should really chill, Icarus.
I guess i don’t care if i’m ugly. I’m negative as fuck and i’m not going to put on a fake smile.
Fake smiles definitely suck. But negativity can be beautiful, for example sadness like the example of leaving flowers at a grandmothers grave. I think the OP is just saying hate = ugly.