When i met her we kind of liked each other. We started going out. After about 2 weeks of dating she says she is not really looking for a relationship. Feeling neglected and rejected i burry my feelings and live on. I was kind of sad tho. Maybe becouse i never fell in love with someone this much before. 2 years pass and i get a random text from her asking me out on a pizza date. All those burried feelings flood my toughts and i fell for her more then ever. Date went well and we’ve been talking for a while then i say it. “I really like you”. This is it, the moment i’ve been waiting for, her reply “i dont really see us dating cuz of our different points of view”. What happened? What’s with all the false hope? What’s with the random call on a pizza date? I feel played, defeated. What was her point, her reason? She ripped my heart mercyless and crushed it into pieces. Why?
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I’ve recently had this same situation. There seems to be no reason behind “her” actions, but i like to think it’s because “she” is actually hurting inside as well. Unfortunately, it’s toxic to both involved. It doesn’t make it hurt less though. It’s just my view.
Maybe that’s a question to ask her.
She probably had no idea you were that into her. The first time, she was likely dating a few people but wasn’t serious about any of them. The second time, maybe she had just broken up with somebody and was looking for a rebound, or was feeling lonely. She remembered you and how the two of you had fun, so she called you again.
She hadn’t been wanting anything serious, so she was honest with you. Be thankful for that. Some people will lead you on for months while they date others (whom they may not tell you about). At least she was upfront, so now you can forget her, and don’t go out with her again, because if she doesn’t *like* you now, it’s doubtful that she ever will.
try 20 years then ur heart gets ripped out, i dont trust a woman ever.
guys and girls both do bad things but i think woman are the worst.
they have the power of completely fucking your world up.
you should try online dating and just call and text for awhile to get to know them first so this dont happen again.
Good question. I have no idea what’s with the flaky behavior of other humans. I have girls who text me and act flirty, can never manage to get them to make plans, stop talking to them for weeks or months or years, some random night at 130am I’ll get a text and it’s a kissy face or a heart all over again. Then if I try to ask people why they do what they do, they seem incapable of even coming up with an answer.
People are just getting weirder with each year that goes by. Social media must really be rotting brains or something. Everybody thinks they’re the star of their own little story and they’ve lost all empathy for other people. They reappear if they want your company, they disappear when they don’t, all without caring that you’re a person with feelings too.