I hate that my “friends” are all friends with my rapist – they claim not to be but they very obviously are. Always talking to him, laughing with him, partying with him, visiting his place, cooking for him at one point fucking him. I wish they could see how deteriorating this is. Its not enough to say I should be the one to say don’t hang out with him. if some guy that you say you’re only acquaintances with rapes you’re friend you get rid of the guy. Don’t make excuses as to why you continue to get close to him and apologise and continue to do it. Just cut the fucker off. No wonder they won’t help me make a case against him. Probably making hearts over the “i” in his fucking name. I’m fucking raging right now. They wonder why I don’t hang out with them well try take a stab in the dark there, Sherlock . After all my rape has put me through….. but why should I be fucking surprised… after all they’ve put me through!!!!
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People will make their choice. I hate it when people side with the abuser, but it happens. I think it speaks towards their quality. I don’t think people like that deserve to participate in my life. I think you probably deserve better, it sounds like you think so as well.
There are other people. Wipe the slate clean and start fresh, maybe? Whatever it takes, because friends can be replaced. Your peace of mind, your health? You’ve only got one body, one mind, one heart. People that try to take that from you are the worst slime. If, however, there is a pattern, it might have to do with how one chooses friends. I haven’t had much luck with loyal friends, but, I’m always looking.
No clue myself, but my heart goes out to you regardless.
Fuck all of those people, you deserve better than them. This makes me so fucking mad when this happens, people fucking suck.
Don’t worry about them..You’re wasting time and energy by even thinking they are your “friends”.They are not. Friendships don’t work that way ..but you’ll realize. I know it must have been really hard for you,but time will definitely heal and th right people will enter your life and will help you when days are rough. Stay strong:)
I’m sorry you’re going through this. People SUCK … I’ve definitely witnessed and experienced that myself… I hope you get through this and find people that are truly genuine and good .. as hard as it is to find that.. if anyone ever finds where those magical people are.. the ones that are actually “good” people .. let me know plz..cuz I haven’t found any
You have my deepest sympathy. I know what it’s like to go through what you are. Best thing to do it ditch all your ‘friends’. I don’t know how people can behave this way. It’s so disrespectful and is a slap in the face.
When people side with someone who has wronged you in any way, it’s infuriating. I still struggle with it. I know it makes me feel worse to dwell and grudge, and hate it when someone wants me to get over it. They are right of course, but it sucks. I think the only way to feel better is to let it out to people who will support you, like here. Rant and rave and we will be on your side. If you can’t make a legal case about the deeper issue, then tell his boss. Tell his parents. Post it on every car window and store window on his block. Make him face it head on. It might even be worse than a legal punishment at the end of the day. And after you made sure he can never hide from it, I hope you can take the support from here and that small vindication and cut out the rest of the cancer and move on. We are rooting for you.