GeneralIs Cold Down Here by ravingbean 11/16/2018 written by ravingbean 11/16/2018At the bottom of the pit. I wish there was a way I could pull myself out. It feels so hopeless. Please help me. 9 comments 0EmailRelated postsNote or no note 8/8/2020Will pessimism eventually lead some people to suicide? 8/8/2020 8/8/2020This Episode Is Out Of My Control… 8/7/2020Hello 8/7/2020Disordered and Done 8/6/2020I’m hurting inside. I just want to be... 8/6/2020Help? – Ok, with Self-Hate.. 8/6/2020VI 8/6/2020Is anyone even here? 8/5/20209 comments Tellmewhy 11/16/2018 - 2:42 pmIs there anything l can do? Log in to Reply ravingbean 11/16/2018 - 2:55 pmI wish you could reach down and pull me up. Log in to Reply Tellmewhy 11/16/2018 - 2:57 pmYeah but how? Log in to Reply Rainwatch 11/16/2018 - 2:59 pmSo relateable! I’m at the bottom of the pit as well. Log in to Reply Tellmewhy 11/16/2018 - 3:21 pmI ask the same: can l help with something? Log in to Reply Once 11/16/2018 - 5:10 pmThe shitty reality is that none of us can pull you out. That would be great, then we could all pull each other out. I can offer a view from the pit myself, though, which I know is trite and irrelevant, but at least sometimes knowing others hope for help being pulled out of the pit makes the depth just a bit more tolerable. That’s a lot of mumbo jumbo hot air psychobabble, I know. It does you no good right now, today, but it’s all I have to offer – I (we) have our pits, and they’re evil places. Sorry life sucks for you. Log in to Reply ravingbean 11/16/2018 - 8:12 pm@once your words help me, for what it’s worth. I sometimes think that, at least symbolically we can and do pull each other up. That’s one of the reasons I come to this page. So thank you. Log in to Reply eternaldarkness 11/16/2018 - 8:08 pmWe are all in our own dark, cold, lonely pits here. Log in to Reply heartlessviking 11/17/2018 - 2:26 pmWhat can I give you? Advice maybe:make peace with the pit. make friends with the cold, get comfortable in the dark.This is a dark and lonely place, and i’ve been here off and on for nine years. It doesn’t get power over you if it doesn’t scare you. The pit is a test, though whoever wrote it is a sadistic bastard, the only way out is to survive. The way out will show up if you keep looking.Fuck I hate the pit. I hate the world outside the pit more though, all the more for me being in the pit and them not understanding what the pit is, why it is there. you’re enough though, so am I, so is everyone. We’re humans, the greatest adaptive species the planet has ever seen. A human adapts and so rises above the situation.hope that’s meaningful or helpful. Log in to Reply Leave a Comment Cancel ReplyYou must be logged in to post a comment.Subscribe to comments: Don't subscribeAllReplies to my comments Notify me of followup comments via e-mail. You can also subscribe without commenting.