I think I have lot of complexities about my body and looks . I feel like I’m not the way I like to be . I really worry thinking of it everyday . I like a person …. but I feel like that person doesn’t deserve me …. I feel like I’m not a perfect match for that person …… I understand we must have self love for ourself and shit . But I feel I’m not beautiful in anyway ….. I don’t know what to do to overcome thissssss. I suffer a lot thinking about this ….. I don’t know what to do seriously ? This is making me cry cry and cryyy. Why I’m like thisss . Why God has blessed me like thisssss. Whom shall I blame …. I’m unlucky in all way ….. today is an auspicious day in our traditional culture. But all depression come today and attacks me in all direction . I can’t be me ….
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There is an overemphasis on sex in our society. I have gone out on dates with girls that were very attractive, only to feel disappointed and let down because they were horrible people on the Inside. The opposite is true, too–I’ve gone on dates with people that I was less attracted to, but became infatuated because of who they were as a person. I ended up married to such a person, and THAT’S the goal! People are searching for someone to love and grow old with, not just somebody hot to fuck. Beauty fades and beauty lies, but a person’s heart never lies.
I encourage you to give it a shot and ask this person out! If you fail, at least it won’t be out of a lack of trying, and then you’ll know what to do next time and be more confident. But who’s to say they won’t say yes anyway? 🙂
It is normal to be nervous when you like somebody. And it’s likely that, when it comes to your beauty, you’re harder on yourself in your own head than anyone else is to your face.
Go get them! Best of luck!
Warm words …. thanksss