I came out I was bi to my mom and it wasn’t the reaction I expected it to be. I expected it to be tears of joy but it was tears of madness and anger and I started to cry cause i didn’t know why she was getting mad of the situation I mean aren’t u gonna be happy for me i came out to u cause I trust you and now I have no choice but to think to kill myself I mean why hasn’t god taken me yet i mean it’s my time to go :/
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God looked away from us in a past life and sent us to this fucking hellhole nits either that or there is no god. Fuck our lives. -_-
You should meet my mom, she finds homosexuals repulsive yet since theyre guys she still avoids them. She’s a complete homophobe, probably would kill me in my sleep if I said I wanted guys too. (not literally sadly)
hey, im bi too and my mom had a bad reaction too, show her info on bisexuals sit her down and have a discussion about it, usually when straight homophobes think of same sex relationships they think of the sex, and get repulsed. so point out to her that it doesnt matter who you love and that LGBT IS natural and theres several examples in the animal kingdom, particularly bonobos and dolphins.
That’s not all she wants to change me she’s sending me to a phychologist
She knows I have a girlfriend and she hates that I feel like when I grow up and I’m still bi my parents or my brother and sister won’t talk to me just my twin sister will and thanks guys your comments mean alot :’)
Hey you’re not alone on this, i am bi aswell.
Well depending on which phycologist you are most likley to have one that will know your position and talk to your mother rather then you about this. She might be afraid because of your religion but this might also be because she’s afraid for you, which is why she doesn’t know what to think. It’s not your fault in this at all so there’s no point of being so hurt. A discussion will come about either before or after your visit for apparent therapy but until she’s willing to say anything more about you can’t do much.
Take Care
We’re here.
Besides any normal psychologist will tell her that shes nuts. Unless its the pray away the gay types, dig your heels in. and say you will only go if you get to choose the shrink. make sure he/she is not one of the “pray the gay away” types. I’ll send you a link you may find useful. Maybe this can help your mother understand.
http://www.belongto.org/
Since i dont know what country you live in this is just one link. there are helplines internationally that may be able to talk sense into your mother. I’d even talk to her if ya want.
Anyways my email is bride.of.paper@gmail.com if you wanna talk.
Blessed be
Hi Boston, See there are many people bi in this world. It’s how we are growing up to be now. it’s accepted by us younger people (myself i’m not so young anymore, but i like to think i am) and those are who you are generally around in life. who cares what others thinks. do what makes you happy, ignore what everybody else thinks. Stay strong, hold your head high. Hope i helped a bit. take care
LB
Thanks guys and thank you LB it really touched my heart :’)