I know this isn’t the best way to get it out but Ive tries everything. I’m 14 and VERY depressed. No one seems to get that I am hurting a lot. Yes I am 14 and I know that this may just be hormonal or something. But I think its more then that. I’ve been depressed about my weight (150 pounds 5”7.) thinking I’m fat, I think I’m ugly because of my acne, my family is gaining up on me because they think I’m just grumpy all the time, my dad is NEVER home so I am alone with everyone yelling at me, I recently broke up with my boyfriend (2 months ago) who was a real self confidence booster till things just weren’t right anymore and I just feel alone in life. I think I am only writing this because I need someone to talk to but I’ve got no one. I have a counsler but It doesn’t feel right since she is my moms friend. I can’t take this anymore. Wanting to be happy again is all I want. But I just keep going to suicidal thoughts. Which isnt right for a girl my age. Its tearing me down and I can’t handle this anymore. All I think is death is my only way out. Please no hatred as it will make my life more miserable.
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I don’t think you’ll find any hatred here matty this is a great site for talking with people about your problems and letting everything out. I’ve said this to others and i’ll say it here as well, what makes someone truly beautiful is the person they are, not how they look, be confident in yourself you’re not ugly, and if it really does bother you that much there are lots of things you can do about it. As far as weight loss i’m sure if you ate right and did a little exercise you could shed those pounds in no time, 150 lbs isn’t bad at all. As an added bonus exercise is a natural anti-depressent and will boost your confidence.
Please give it a while longer you’re only 14 and you can definitely work through these issues. If you need someone to talk to i’m all ears, as are many others on this site. And if that’s not enough you should tell your counseler how you feel uncomfortable about her being friends with your mother, and i;m sure she can arrange someone for you to talk to in person.
Thank you. It feels nice to finally have someone that listens. I just hate telling people my problems cause they shouldn’t have to listen to them. I’ve just held it I for about a year now. The thing with my family is we’re all organic and healthy. No sugar what’s so ever. I do a lot of sports..volleybal, basketball, soccer and running. And I run and do an excersises every 2 days. I just don’t know why I am still big. I have this problem too. Polysostic ovarian syndrome which makes it hard to loose weight and cause acne which really doesn’t help my situation.
i know how you feel i lost my boyfriend after being with him for 6 months the break up is still fresh but this one has really gotten to me.. what i can tell you is wanting to die may seem like a good idea but we were put on this earth for a reason and we will be put on this earth again and again till we find what we were put on this earth for.. do not give up yourself you are a beautiful girl and have a kind heart do not feel ugly or fat you are perfect just how you are so do not compare your self too other skinny girls you are loving your body and EATING when you get hungry i am 130 and five one i am short but i am also your age and trust me i know that it is hard to be a 14 year old girl i hate being 14 because of all the crap that will hit you in the face as you get older but you get passed it and feel better in the end
Yeah me and my boyfriend were dating for 6 month too.i thought he was going to break up with me cause things weren’t going the same as normal so I thought I’d just end it so I wouldn’t get hurt. And have another thing to deal with. And I hate beig 14 and saying that I miss him a lot cause people are like your too young and you shouldn’t have gotten into a serious relationship then. But I do he we sweet, kind and listened to me. It’s been 2 months since the breakup and I’m still sad.
*130 pounds
I’d rather listen to your problems than you bottle them up inside 😛 As far as not losing weight it could be a lot of things. Just a few tips, don’t eat before bed,drink lots of water, and eat consistently throughout the day so your metabolism stays active. It’s great that you do so many sports keep going.
Hey sweety,
I know how you feel… I’m exactly the same weight and height as you are. I read about your syndrome and that you can’t lose weight, so it’s not your fault that you’re “big”. And anyway, if this helps, I just went to the doctor a week ago and he told me I am a perfect weight for my height.
You can talk to me, I’ll listen. cullen.alice.bella@gmail.com
Lots of love<3
If you honestly think your fat then go and see a dr, they can tell you if you actually are or not and refer you to a nutritionist who can develop a plan to either have you take weight off in a healthy way or put it on.
i am completely in the same boat as you. i’m 14, severly overweight, with a disgusting face, crooked nose, ugly voice and yes i have no friends too.i always wonder why people dont like me, and i’ve started to think that its because of my weight, like they’re ashamed of me or something. i’ve tried so many methods to lose weight, made my mum sign me up to the gym for $800 and guess what, nothing has happened. no i have not had a boyfriend, because people are so judgmental and dont accept me. I’m here for you, so if you ever need to talk i am here for you.yes i never see either or my parents either, because they work 18hrs a day at their shop, 7 days a week, and i’ve given up to the point where i didn’t even see my dad on fathers day, and i forgot about his birthday. he’s never home likewise, and when he is, i suggest we do something together and he says “no i have to be at bla bla bla’s place”. he never has time for me.please email me:chocacholic@live.com.aui would really like to know your story. i feel like i’ve met a sister.