I am really feeling miserable. I have just divorced and found a gf whom I really
Love. She is so cute at times and sweet at times. But she is so self centre and thinks whatever she have done is right. She love to deny the facts and shout at me with serious attitude problem. Most upset is she like to be uncontactble, likes to hang the phone and likes to Mia when quarrel. I have some bad debts with me due to first marriage. I hope to have someone to enlighten me, I always burst out crying with the state I am in and feel like ending my life. It may sounds nth serious from the problem I face. But I really feel very miserable with no one to voice out, no one to help, no one to support. I am so lonely, like the whole world I see is only black and white.
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Be careful my friend. When we end a significant relationship it leaves behind a vacuum that too easily can attach us to someone new that we then give way too much emotional control over us. What’s worse is that we can fall in love with someone that will take advantage of our damaged spirit and we don’t see it. And pretty soon the person ends up making our lives worse than ever or when we are most vulnerable, they dump us for some disgusting prick and then we really implode.
Find a friend you can confide in and really trust that will support you and help you talk things out. But do not give them any power over you and don’t get into bed with them. Don’t get into a romantic relationship until you are stronger and believe in yourself again. Then you will attract someone truly right for you that you can trust with your heart and spirit. I am speaking from personal experience.