i’m a 17 years girl , muslim , algerian , i will pass my baccalaureat this year , i’m a good student , very shy , never was in a relationship , i follow my religion’s orders , but my life sucks , my parents are married for 21 years , but they hate eachother since their first year , but my mom was very patient for a long time , she expected that my father will treat her well when she have kids or when we grow , and so we’re in hell , each time my father does something unexpectable , unimaginable , he breaks , he hits , spitt , throw gas on bad and tried to burn the house once , and many other things that can’t be believed so my mother just couldn’t handle this , they are litigants for ever , bed separated , dad never cares for mom but if she does , ohhhh!!! that’s her day ,,, this afternoon , mom threw gas on bed too and tried to burn the house , dad bringed policemen home , but fortunately they did nothing , what to do !! i’m very depressed , this shitty life’s killing me from the inside , anyone who can help me !!
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don’t let your parents burn your fucking house down! since you’re religion is muslim i’m guessing you live in the middle east, and i don’t know if they have child protection programs (where they take care of you) there either. however they might. .
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Sorry, I don’t believe in a god, but I do have an opinion;
The problem with religion is mostly not the believe in a higher power but in the rules (institutions) people bind with it. What is love if you don’t sleep in the same bed? What is love if you try to burn the house of your spouse down? Does god/allah really wish that should be the way?
First thing that comes to mind; getting your bachelor seems great, get your own house. Maybe they can help, maybe they can’t. You sound smart enough to get out of this mess in less than two years.
Second? What do you believe? What does your god look like? What is fair in his (or probably her) opinion? I would say equality in any human relationships should be basic and cannot be denied. I know it’s a rough struggle were you live 🙁
OMG that is awful! I sort of understand your situation. My dad was Muslim and my Mom is Catholic. I am Atheist (we didn’t mind each other’s beliefs that much). The problem was that my dad was a violent schizophrenic and it always felt like my home was a thin line away from war. My parents loved each other, and “disbelieved” in divorce.
Although I never had to fear that my house would burn down, we did call the police on my dad several thousand times to have him sent to the mental hospital when he was getting out of control. If either/both of your parents are going to potentially harm you or each other, you must be brave!
Look to see what help you can get. It is not fair to you. You do not have to live like that.
As for me, my dad died last year of cancer so the chaos ended. I have mix/unresolved feelings. I hope everything works out for you.
it was so nice from u guys these words , i tried once to kill myself by having pills that makes u sleep , i had like 4 pills , when we only take a quarter of a pill to sleep all night long . i fell down , so my mom took me to the hospital where they gave me an injection , i slept for a week , but now , i think of suicide most of times but then i remeber what about my after life !!! how will i face my god , so i try not to do it , i hope things will get better for me , and thank u again , it would be trully great to know u guys more , and ur stories