So I’ve been with this guys for almost 2 years. He’s a great guy and we used to be inseparable, but it’s becoming clear that we’re not meant for each other and have nothing in common. However he knows about my depression and my previous suicide attempt so I think that’s the reason he hasn’t broken up with me. I plan to leave the world next week (have surefire method) so I’m debating whether or not I should breakup with him first. Thoughts?
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If he’s a great guy, knows about your struggles, and has been there for you, maybe it’s possible to maintain a friendship? You’ve written previously about your stash but you haven’t touched on what’s happened to result in you gong up on life. Perhaps there is another solution? If you’d like to expand on it, maybe people here can offer advice. Giving up probably isn’t the answer.
I’m with Distant.Road – your boyfriend sounds like he IS a great reason to live for and perhaps your relationship with him can be recovered. Are you sure the only reason he is still with you is because of your known suicide attempt? I won’t claim to know the details of your relationship, but being together for two years, it does sound as if something is there. Even if things have ran their course, perhaps there is still a good friendship to be had with him, as the above comment suggests. In any event, I wish you well and hope you seriously consider all of your options before going through with something extreme. All the best.
L4Y
(L4Y@cogeco.ca)