Okay, so this divorce thing has been dragging on for a year. It’s not what I wanted. Sure I could have been a better husband, but that doesn’t really matter now. Have a court appearance next week, hopefully that will resolve the thing once and for all. Visiting with our son tomorrow, I have to try really hard not to talk to him about her. But really the big thing is we’re not getting back together. So I’ve been laying around mostly feeling sorry for myself. I think it’s time to get up off my ass and start trying to build some sort of new kind of life for myself. Wish me luck.
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Pray that you don’t get a female judge.
Female judges are 1,000X worse than female drivers.
You’re generalizing again Morris. (You shouldn’t do that.)
Just speakin’ the truth, doll.
Women ruin men.
The ‘truth’ is that both genders have the capability to be unpleasant to one another. Just look around this site, there are many stories of men screwing over women, or vice versa. It goes both ways.
@OP I’m sorry about the divorce, hope all goes well in court.
In order to ‘start again,’ remember to take time for introspection so that you may grow as a person, and learn who you are as an individual and what you need out of life, and what you can realistically give to others. This way you’re less likely to be disappointed in your relationships.
Good luck. Focus on your son and try to endure the pain.
Hey, Sad, been down the divorce road. It sucked majorly at the time. We had two small kids. Lucky for me I met a wonderful guy who is a million times the guy my first husband was. That was 15 yrs ago. Hang in there. It’s rough now but you’ll pull thru and maybe meet a new lady that will blow the doors off that soon-to-be former mrs.