Things falling apart for me: Not getting paid from 2nd job unless I get a Chase account, that I can’t get due to horrible credit score. Main job has to switch payment system so there could be a huge 3 week interruption. This leave me with $0 to live on. Can’t rent a place now!!!
Things fall apart for Man of My Dreams: his life long disability that he has received from birth suddenly gets cut off without warning or reason. He will be homeless and I don’t have a place to offer him, and can’t get a place with my jobs unable to pay me. If I had a place, I’d be the hero again…
I’d like to tell him the moral of the story must be that things will never work out for us living separate lives, and that he has to marry me for things to work out for us… heh.
SIGH!
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I dont know why these things are happening to you. If you work they are obligated to PAY YOU in a way you can receive it. Like a check you can cash or deposit into ANY bank. You need you step up for yourself and demand viable payment.
and Why has your guys benefits stopped?? They cant just stop them without reason or at least send you a letter as to why?? If he has a real disability as prescribed by the disability department then there is no reason for them to stop. Unless it was negligence on his part… like failing to update his claim info…… Failing to report income…failing to abide by doctors advice etc etc. You need to look into this and ask him these questions??
OR its possible that somebody hacked into his disability account and deleted it.
anyway I wish I was in your area to help you with these things. I hate it when people get pushed around by the system.
Anyway your man should marry you…. that would be the best for him especially.
You can email me if you have questions
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Right he has had benefits since birth and no he did not get a letter. On the 1st he had no deposit, called to find out why, and they said they’ve been overpaying him so they cut him off. He hasn’t done anything, he just accepted that he got the benefits, wasn’t lying to them and he doesn’t have any other income. How is $600 too much for someone who was declared disabled at birth?
what about getting a check from work then cashing it through those “Pay-Day” places? It’s unfortunate that you didn’t have any savings set aside….for us ordinary/non-rich folks, that’s a must, esp if you don’t have any credit-line or card.
How about staying with friends temporarily till you get things sorted out? Like pay and housing? You need to speak with your employers to find a reasonable payment arrangement.
I don’t have anywhere I can stay and check cashing places will not cash checks for me they claim they can’t verify my employer exists.