This happens in my life daily. People close to us shouldn’t judge, they should accept. I am still at a loss of what I need to ultimately do regarding these people in my life.
Sometimes asking them to stop judging me does nothing but cause them to double their efforts. I’m making a plan though, not sure what it is, but I have my drafting table and pencils out this morning.
I tell them to piss off most of the times, really works in my case. But yeah really sucks when they judge, but the problem is that they want to see what they *want* to see, they judge you so you change in something “better” in their eyes.
So yeah, if you are not dependent on them tell them “piss off” or if they are like parents or whatever just nod and say nothing
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Ignore them, don’t listen their words.
Or just say stop you’re hurting me.
Sorry, wish i had better things to say!
This happens in my life daily. People close to us shouldn’t judge, they should accept. I am still at a loss of what I need to ultimately do regarding these people in my life.
Sometimes asking them to stop judging me does nothing but cause them to double their efforts. I’m making a plan though, not sure what it is, but I have my drafting table and pencils out this morning.
I tell them to piss off most of the times, really works in my case. But yeah really sucks when they judge, but the problem is that they want to see what they *want* to see, they judge you so you change in something “better” in their eyes.
So yeah, if you are not dependent on them tell them “piss off” or if they are like parents or whatever just nod and say nothing