Hey man, I’ve been seeing other women and do you have an email. Or chat on here? I’m doing what i think im supposed to. But seeking more advice on the matter. I like what you and some others say. And think
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For now, just keep posting on here. What did you need advice on?
I’m talking to and seeing three different girls.. So technically I’m just dating. I don’t have a job, well I do work one day a week. I do take free classes too. Should I keep doing what I’m doing? I’m not necessarily lying. But I’m not where I want to be. Or stop and focus on getting a job first. It weighs in on me not working everyday like I used to.
Out of those three women, which one is the coolest? But if I was in your shoes, I would do everything that I could to just get the best full-time job right now. I hope you are living on your own, as well; if not, make it happen. Taking classes should help sharpen that mind of yours. Hey, just enjoy life man! Start up a new hobby, see new places, hang out with friends and throw down with them in sports. I think I am going to start building model cars soon. I’m not a big marine person, so, no ships. But I’m quite the gear-head.
Oh, and I remember reading a while back that you let these punks at work beat you up. DON’T DO THAT. Never do that. Three punks tried to mess with me at my last place, I got serious, they all backed down. Wusses, all of them — even though they loved to talk a big talk and was always wanting it from the ladies the most.
You’re alright.. man!
I won’t ever let that happen again. I realized that was not a good way to deal with my emotional pain at the time. I encounter some from time to time. But I stand up to them, on the real. For my own peace of mind. And put that and them behind me.
The only reason why I got into it with those punks was that ex who kept getting used by them, and kept manipulating me because I forgot who she really was 6 months pior when I left her after two minutes of talking. Then ultimately, she was trashed by them all. I left that idiotic woman, though. I’m sure I know what’s going to happen to her now. She HAD to be a b*tch. Well, now, she can try doing that to the dude who keeps her around just… She didn’t want to be loved, only to be — ——… She was a foolish woman, needless to say.
I know you’re asking october for advice, but i thought i might add this: “just dating” three girls is not nice if you look at it objectively. I might be pretty much wrong here, but when you’ve gone from just friends to dating, there’s already a (pretty small) sort of commitment. I mean, if they don’t know it and you’re hiding it from them… that’s not a good thing to do (imho). If they do know and they’re okay with it, no prob.
I’m just saying that because i’d feel like crap if a girl dated me and i find out eventually that she was also dating other guys (and keeping it secret), but hey, what do i know, my moral sense is pretty much from the past century, lol.
That’s a good point!
Viva past century moral! 😛
I love reading guys perspectives on this stuff. Carry on men.
I like your advice too MF.and Darvin’s cool in my book. I don’t think I know what the right thing is to do anymore.
Imo, just take things slowly. You don’t have to rush. Be patient, try to relax and have some fun .
Thanks btw, you’re cool too! :]
And I’m glad you inserted your advice too MF.
Tiredthoughts: How do you keep track of three girlfriends? I can hardly keep track of one husband and that is exhausting. You must be very organized.
Hazy, its not 3 gfs. I’m talking and getting to know each of them. But October is right. Which one is the coolest. So I am picking one. Because I want to be the good moral guy. I just thought with my suffering of the ex that I should see as many as I can and fill up my mind with as many experiences as I can
I never thought before the ex that I was good enough for a beautiful woman or that of many of beautiful women. Is doing this something that girls like? Is this confidence. I do agree with MF. and I so value sunflowers words. And I like talking to October and Rockin and darvin and the rest of the SP gang.