I was at a restaurant a couple of weeks ago and there were two cute girls working the counter and when I walked up I just felt like shit. Â I always feel like people watch and just think of me as a complete loser. Â I didn’t even want to go up to the counter because I was so nervous and intimidated because I thought they were just judging me as some pathetic asshole. Â Well, if I was them I would probably think the same think of me.
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Sometimes I feel that too, especially when I’m in public, I can feel people watching me and I always assume they think I’m a loser or something, it freaks me out to no end. You just gotta learn to try and ignore it, no matter how stupid you think you are.
I used to feel like that too. For years and years. One day, at like 25/26, i dont know why, i just stopped caring. Totally. It makes no sense.
I now walk the streets with the biggest fucking smile on my face and if someone doesn’t like it’s their problem, cause i’m happy as hell.
If you think they don’t like you then you should ask them. if they don’t like you then your not losing anything from asking them and if they do like you then they probably wanted you to go up to them to begin with. Don’t feel bad about what other people think, cause they feel the same way about other people. maybe they don’t care about what you think but they care about what someone thinks of them, just like you. they aren’t any different.