I feel like my time is getting close. It’s as if I am ready to go now. I know how I will leave. Just have to put a few things in place…
I am just not sure if I should leave a note behind. What do you think about it? would It help those left behind or do you think it would just make it worse?
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I always thought the “short and sweet” note would be best. But, I think they’d prefer you to the note.
I took a look at your other posts… Why not try to talk about whats going on with you?
I think a short one would be best as well… I tend to get caught up in my words. And talking has only gotten me admitted into a treatment program where I’ve been put on meds that make me feel even worse. I see a therapist once a week and she’s lovely but she’s already made up her mind with regard to what I’m trying to deal with and so I seem to only be hearing everything I’ve been telling myself the past 10-15years anyway…
Thank you for taking the time to reply.
Depends how old you are and what you been through I guess
A few years back when I was 18 I was going to leave a note .. short and sweet
But now at 21 and after, I make it a point to not say a word at all… hey especially if you don’t love what/who you’re leaving
I guess the one note I plan to leave by my body is a demand with my deepseated believes if my body is found to have no such thing as a ‘funeral’ no such thing as an ‘obituary’ no such thing as a ‘burial’ and I request rather demand if I haven’t rid my things that they be rid and not kept… I have also been sure to include I don’t want anyone’s hands on my body.. medics or anything… which is my main worry that they will touch me after I am dead… and mainly why I don’t want to be found..
They don’t really know what I’ve been through and I hope they never find out. They would feel so guilty and would want to blame themselves. I think that’s one thing I want to mention in my note…
I haven’t really thought about my “where” just yet but I think we agree on a “no touchy” policy! … thank you for your reply
Yeah I get really hung up on the where and the how because I want to do it right I guess is the only reason I haven’t committed yet…
I may have to take a trip down to Mexico City…
Usually when people die young everyone is all funeral funeral funeral and sh*t I just really don’t want any funerals or gatherings or nothing like that at all. UGH.