hey you know all the people here who are single and sad because of it

I don’t know your situation but

i can confidently say it is better to be single than in a relationship that is awful

please please dont compromise

dont settle

dont tell yourself things will be different

only if

only if

because you are who you are

and you will never change

not really

never enter a relationship, especially a marriage, that shows signs of breaking

Just save yourself

Please

you have no idea how soul-whittling it is

every day

you lose

just a little bit of happiness

just a little bit of yourself

until there is nothing but bitterness

and the cold grayness dwelling in your heart

and before you know it

that is all you are

a cold, bitter grayness

the worst version of yourself

that looks vaguely like someone who was, once, so much of color and life

once upon a time