Whoever is reading this should think about there loved ones before you commit suicide and think of what your little brother,mom,grandma,or anyone would say/think after you have already died and what they vould have done to help you before commiting suicide…THINK AND PRAY
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What LAME advice. The “feel guilty don’t suicide” advice that is. First off, isn’t selfish to live for “them” as you keep suffering each day. Isn’t it better to let your loved one have peace? PRAY? to whom? God? Fairy Godmother? Santa Claus? Imaginary deities doesn’t work. Again, LAME ADVICE.
Pray?… That doesn’t help me at all, quite the opposite. I haate religion and I hate this world and praying dont get me anywhere…
Yeah, pray to whom? The Great Spaghetti Monster perhaps? The God of you christians in no more real than Thor or Odin, Shiva or Vishnu, Zeus or Mars… I could go on. We are alone and godless, so accept it!!! As for how suiciding hurts your loved ones; isn’t it selfish of others to expect you to stay alive for them, especially when you are in profound emotional and mental anguish… that seems to go on and on and on?
Don’t know about the first posters intention. Try read it as a reaction from someone who feels helpless facing this kind of situation too. You say it’s a lame advice. For someone really suicidal every advice will be lame. Thinking of the people you leave behind might make you hesitate. And maybe in some very few cases, thinks might change. However, this board is intended for people speaking out what they feel when nobody’s there wanting to hear it. You don’t have to like everything is said, but as long as it doesn’t really harm you, try be tolerant with other posters.
I’ll agree that thinking of how it may affect your loved ones helps, but I’ll be the first to tell you that after a while, not even that is enough to stop anyone. As for praying, it is useless to pray to empty air. Pointless in fact. What god who would claim to love us so much would sit there while we go through this horrible pain we feel every day? Don’t give me that test of faith excuse or test of will, mainly because if it was, then what kind of god do we have watching over us? Trusting such a god would be more then insane, it would be masochistic and destructive. Why should we be tested in such ways?
um i have alot to say first dont be raggin on god like that god forbide but damn he could strike you down right now as youre reading this but i know he wouldnt but um just because you dont believe in him some of us do so dont be discourageing to others who do because thats not what this website is about when you put others down how do you think that makes them feel then you guys complain about how your life sucks and that people atree mean and no one cares want to know why its because of the way you are treating others what goes around comes around . and god doesnt put thru anything that he knows we cant handle so if youre going thru some tuff stuff then damn god thinks youre really strong but um this website isnt for you guys to be rude and mean and so whatever yeah its for your opinions but keep the rude comments to yourself okay lots o love Sebrina L. if you would like to consult with me you can reach me at my email sabrinachavez37@yahoo.com
K, this goes right under my Shut up and LEAVE, we don’t want you here. Post. For those who don’t want to try to find it, here is a copy and past for you:
To: All those who have created an account so that they can preach/tell us what we already know,
People come on this site to rant, vent, get advise. They do not want to hear “People will be sad if you kill yourself†or “God loves you and has a plan†or “Suicide is permanent and your feelings may not seem like it right now, but are not†and then there is the straight up “Don’t do it!â€s
One, do you really think that we have not thought about what we will leave behind? Most of use are OVERTHINKERS. This means that we thing about things like that over and over and put great consideration into it.
Two, not all of us believe in god (I don’t) and the ones that do have also thought this through very deeply.
Three, do you honestly think that we do not know that suicide is permanent? For reals? That is why we want it. That is why it is so appealing.
I liked the idea of this website because it allowed for people who are feeling the same things to communicate and get other points of view.
So I may not have everyone’s opinion, but I know that I’m not the only one that wants to yell FUCK OFF.
Love, (Yes of all words, I used love)
Sirachick