For those of you out there who have a partner please try to realise how lucky you are. Some of us don’t even have that or have had it for some years. I would give anything to have a girlfriend right now, If I did then I would certainly have one good reason to keep living. Imagine how sad you’d be if you didn’t have them. You’d probably be as sad as me. So please, think of what you have, please.
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If you don’t mind my asking, how old are you? 🙂 I know what you mean. I’ve been single for a little whiles now and I always thought my ex was my reason for living. I still think he was and I’m on the verge of killing myself. Not over him but because I simple don’t see a reason to live anymore.
Having a bf or gf isn’t everything in life. I’ve been in relationships where I was still unhappy regardless if I with them or not. I realized that it wouldn’t be fair to carry on a relationship with anyone unless I learn to love myself first. Unfortunately, with my depression n anxiety, I won’t ever love myself and that I’d rather be alone than put someone thru what I’m going thru. It just wouldn’t be fair.
find that reason a significant other isnt always the best thing in the world sometimes i like the days where i was single and partying in the clubs and having random guys buy me drinks and dance with me it was fun and i didnt have to worry about hurting anyone or them hurting me.
I don’t think he was saying that having a boyfriend/girlfriend is everything. I think he was trying to point out that having someone to stand by you through thick and thin and just.. someone to love you makes things a lot more tolerable. I would rather have someone who loves me unconditionally by me while I’m going through my worst times and my best than go through them alone.
well he thinks im stupid cuz im depressed and we just argue because hes happy and wants to party and i wanna sleep so he hates how i am and he doesnt understand it even when i try to explain so fuck it i just ignore him now but i understand what u mean by having someone by your side im just saying sometimes it makes me more horrible.
🙁 he’s probably just frustrated because he wants to help you and realizes it isn’t that easy. I bet he loves you :]
@backtrackinlife=I’m 25.
I know what you mean strat, I have always been happiest when I have been in a relationship but at the same time if you suffer from depression it doesnt matter if you have a bf/gf…it just gives you one more person you can talk to. I am guessing that you are younger then me, I am 37 and never been married. I have dated some amazing girls when I was younger but never wanted to settle down, just wanted to do the whole party thing and now all those girls are married and have kids and I am here alone so if you do find that girl(which I am sure you will) make sure you dont let her go.
yeah the same thing/person can make laugh can comfort you as nothing else in the world, is the same thing/person that can hurt you like nothing else.
If it’s the right person, I agree a bf/gf can do wonders to wipe away the dreariness. But realistically I don’t think many people truly find that. Instead, even though the person might be allllmost the perfect soulmate, there are times when you realize that your “soulmate” is false. You are not connected at all. And the loneliness of lying in bed with someone who seems 10,000 miles away is even worse than if the bed were empty.
@scooby – u took the words right out of my mouth.
🙁 I probably will never get a girl to like me enough to ask me out so when I die (not sure when) I die without affecting anyone other than people that know me.
@smiling on the outside: you want to talk? Email me iwant_yourhelp@ yahoo. com
@interrupted – and you took the words out of mine… “It just wouldn’t be fair”
My last relationship was so depressing… she wanted to help me, but I wanted to sink. I got my way & she was miserable… which made me more miserable. At least now I can be depressed without hurting her. Believe it or not, I feel free.
i havent talked to my boyfriend all day and hes not replying it bothers me so much ugh 🙁
Well, let me lay down the pathetic stone here.
I’m almost 20 and I never had a girl and I honestly don’t know how soon I’ll get one.
I’m tired of being alone and it is not only painful and pathetic, it is also embarrassing.
Sometimes I think I would feel much better if I had someone who I loved and who loved me back, but, well, life doesn’t always work out the way we want it to, eh?
Why do people gang up on themselves….if you feel that way about yourself, you aren’t going to attract someone who wants to experience that in you!!!
Hello? Right.
When you change your perspective and attitude about you from the inside, your whole world can and does change. The same energy you invest in being negative can be directly in a positive manner and the outcome you experience will prove that. To a large extent we create our reality and future by why we continuously tell ourselves about our experience.
@ LifeThrough….what you said is absolute rubbish. Wake up, stop playing the victim. So you haven’t met someone yet…it could happen today, next week and you’d be eating your words, unless you honestly don’t want to meet someone. Playing the victim means you might get attention and be pitied which it seems is the pay off for you…otherwise, jump on the horse and project the person you want to be from an authentic place. Follow your heart, not your head….Good luck.