I stumbled upon this site tonight after searching broken heart suicide. Most forums seem to condemn the person who wants to die…..as if some people who contemplate suicide don’t already feel enough guilt as it is.
I don’t blame the person who last hurt me….but I wish would have understood the pain her words and actions caused. Same with my family…..I’m beginning to dislike them though. I do blame God, because he doesn’t care. Anyway, sorry for writing so much on my first post.
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In many instances, people don’t truly understand what that person is going through. It also doesn’t help that society in general considers it a crime to take one’s own life.
But I think you will like it here. In general, people on this website (don’t know how it goes for others as I don’t frequent them as much) seem understanding and wanting to help or are in situations that they understand what it means to truly feel this way.
And you should write more. Personally, I feel that writing out your thoughts helps a lot. Talk about what happened and maybe I or someone else can help. Hope to hear from you again.
I have hurt and have been hurt. It’s a fine line to distinguish people’s reasons for breaking up or whatever. The girls that hurt me at the time, I realize now had all sorts of issues they had yet to deal with and I happened to be the guy who was what they needed at the time….I accept that.
And I lost out huge on the girls I hurt as I had so many family issues, mother issues that didn’t allow me to feel safe in a relationship. So I’d get in and then feel the need to get out. Because they weren’t REAL relationships built on real feelings and intentions, they couldn’t stand. Had I been more together I would have been able to appreciate these girls, they were so awesome and believe me, I have repented for it, not in the religious sense either….seriously, I lost out. So time heals with realizations that pop up in your head as to why people are they way they are. It pretty much is all decided in how they were raised in childhood. You may be the partner in the specific dance with that person, but it goes deeper than that. Good luck.