A poem , maybe it will help you get motivated
if you are at first lonely,    be patient if you not bein alone much
or if when you where you wherent ok with it ,  then just wait you ll find is find to be alone
once you are embracing it, we could start with the acceptable places
the bathroom, the coffe shop, the library where you can stall an read the paper,
where you can get your caffeine fix and sit and stay there , where you can browes the stacks and smell the books
you are not supose to talk much any way so its save there
there’s also the gym if you are shy you can hangout w urself
you can put headphones in their poblic transportation cause we all got to go places and theres prayer and meditation
no one will think less if you r hanging w ur breath seeking peace and salvation
start simple things you might have previously avoided based in your avoid being alone principals
the lunch counter where you will be surrounded by …  employees that only have an hour and their spouses work across town
so they like you will be alone resist the er sh to hangout with your cellphone when you are confrotable with eat lunch and run take yourself out for dinner a resturant with    and silver wear you are not less intrigin a person when you are eating solo desert and cleaning the weapcream from the dish with your finger in fact some people at full tables would wish they were where you are go to the movie where its dark and smothy alone in your sit amights the fleeding comunity and then take your self out dancing to a club where no one knows you stand on the outside of the floor untile the light convince you more and more dance like no one is watching cause they are probably not and if they are asume that it s best in human intantions the way bodies move genly to beats is after all gourges and afecting dance until you are sweeting and beats of prespiration remaind you of life best things
like a book of blessings go to the woods alone and the trees and squarls will watch for you
go to an unfamiliar city Rome the city there are always status to talk to and benches meant for seating give strangers a share of existence if only for a minute and these moments can be so of lifting and the conversations you get in by seating alone on benches my had never happen havent you not bein there by yourself
society is afraid of alonedom
like lonely hearts are wasting away in basments
like people most have problems if after awhile nobody is dating them
but lonely is a freedom that breaths easy and wait less
and lonely is healing if you make it
you can stand swabs by groups and mafs
or hold hands with your partner look both further and further
in the endless quest for company when no one is in your head
and by the time you translate your thoughts some essensce of them might be lost or perhaps its just keep
perhaps in the interest of loving ones self perhaps all those sloppy slongans from pre school over to high school growning where tokens for holding the lonely
because if you are happy in your head then solitude is bless and alone is ok
its ok if no one belifs like you all experience is unique no one has the same synopsis can think like you for these be relief
keeps things interesting life magic things in which and it doesnt mean you arent connected the comunity is not pressent
just take the perspective you get from been one person in one head and feel the affects of it
take silence and respect it if you have an art that needs a practice stop negleting it
and if your family doesnt get you or a religious set does ment for you dont obsess about it
you could be in an instand sorrounded if you need it if your heart is bleeding make the best of it
there is heat and freezing
Be a testament !
-Tanya Davis.
my ingles es malo sorry !