Hello there. I found this site a few days ago and have been debating on whether or not I should join. Well, I joined.
I created this story as a way to try to express how I’ve been feeling lately to my friends. I’m not quite sure if they understood it though…
Anyway, I’ll try to post more info after the story. It just seems like it would be easier to me that way.
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A figure walks into a room and inside the room is a wizard. He walks up to the wizard and asks, “I have heard that you are a great wizard and are able to fulfill anyone’s dreams in exchange for a small task. I have come to you in an attempt to preform this task, and in return I hope you will help me become the person I have always wanted to be.” The wizard hands the figure a glass vase and tells the figure to fill the vase up so that it is full. As the figure examines the vase, he notices that the bottom is cracked and full of large holes. Concerned, he asks the wizard how he’s supposed to fill the vase if it’s in a state such as this. The wizard replies that he can use anything on the shelf next to him to fill it, as long as it gets completely full. “A warning however,” the wizard states, “this vase is full of dark spirits that will attach themselves to you and remove the person you are inside. The longer you take to fill it the more dire your situation will become. Eventually, the only thing that will remain of you is an empty shell.” The figure shrugs this problem off, thinking that somthing on the shelf will help him fill the holes. On there shelf are some books and some labeled bottles. He grabs a book and begins ripping out pages, and then ripping the pages into smaller pieces so that it will fit into the neck of the vase. “Are you going to try to make the bottle fixed with knowledge?” asks the wizard. The figure nods, “I will try.” The pieces, now small enough to fit into the bottle, easily slip through the holes and end up on the floor. Some of the pieces however, remain and stay stuck in the cracks which keep them from falling out. Unfortunately though, when he looks at them through the holes he sees that they all contain random information that don’t help him complete his task. The figure then moves over on the shelf and grabs a large bottle full of a thick, syrupy liquid that contains strange glowing gooey spheres with smiling faces on them. “Are you going to try to fill the bottle with happiness and smiles?” the wizard asks. “I will try,” the figure replies again. He pours the yellow liquid down the neck of the vase, and for a moment he seems to think that this will fill it completely. The spheres plug up the holes, and when the bottle is empty he turns to the wizard with a triumphant look on his face. The wizard gives a smile and points to the bottle. The figure turns and looks down in shock: the spheres that had begun to disintegrate, allowing the liquid to spill out of the vase and onto the floor, just like the paper had. “Smiles are only temporary,” the wizard says. The figure, now starting to get frustrated that his attempts are failing, begins grabbing bottles at random and pouring them all into the vase. None of the liquids in the bottles stayed in the vase. As each failed, the figure began to get more and more desperate, frantically grabbing bottles off the shelf. Finally, there was only one bottle left. On the front was written the word, ‘Love.’ The wizard walks over to the figure and looks down at him, “Are you going to try to fill the vase with love?” The figure stares down at his last chance. Already he felt the spirits acting on him; his body felt heavy and tired, and all of the confidence he had in himself at the beginning was gone. Now he was just working through the motions. He uncorks the last bottle and pours its entire contents into the vase. The liquid from the bottle clung to the sides and when it came to the bottom it didn’t leak out. The figure stared and smiled, but the wizard only shook his head. “It’s not full yet.” He then hands the figure a smaller bottle that glowed with an unusual light. “What is this?” the figure asks. The wizard replies, “Hope.” The figure uncorks the bottle and pours it into the vase. The liquid rises and as it’s about to touch the top of the vase, it begins to go down again. He slowly watches as “Love” begins to dry and flake apart and “Hope” begin to disappear.
Finally, when the vase is completely empty, the man stands up and walks out of the room, not saying a word to the wizard.
“Hope” is gone.
“Love” has disappeared.
Now all that’s left is emptiness.
As time passes, the person the figure was begins to disappear into the darkness. Fear, paranoia, and depression are the only things that remain. The emptiness in his chest however, only grows wider as these spirits continue to inhabit his body and consumes him. They leave behind pain: dull aching pain that never goes away.Every day he wakes up to this, and every night as well. At first, sleep was the only relief, but now his dreams are full of nightmares, and no rest remains. His body tightens up, and as he tries to fight it he shakes. If he lets the fear overtake him for that moment, he feels like he’s drowning in the darkness. In the dark there lies too much noise. It’s not physical sound, but instead he feels it. It’s the movement of words in his head, it’s the rush around him that causes his skin to tingle. Time moves as the world moves on the outside, and in his head he sees this, but the feeling of rushing is too much. To him, it’s as if he were in a hurricane and the wind is moving everywhere around him. The darkness never stops consuming him. Eventually all of the figure is taken over, and the person he was gets swallowed by the darkness. Right before he disappears however, he gives a final smile.
“At least the pain will be over.,” he thinks.
It will all be over, and I’ll be free.
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I wrote this last night before I went to bed at 2 am. It just seemed like it was time to get all these thoughts out of my head. To better understand me, I’ll give some background. Im 19, and a freshman in college who’s about to finish her first year in May. My parents are divorced, and I’m an only child. Because of this, I was raised by my mother and her side of the family. To explain my parents divorce, I can summarize it as: they were married for 10 years before they had me, and when they found out, my father became a belligerent asshole. Though I doubt that explains the situation as I want it to. Basically, when my parents found out that my mother was pregnant with me, my father became abusive and neglectful. He would push her into tables and leave bruises. He wouldn’t bring her food to eat so she was only able to eat for the most part, food from the McDonald’s where she worked. This led me to being born full term, but I appeared small as if I were premature. During my childhood, my family went to court several times and had a restraining order placed on my father. This however didn’t stop him from trying to contact me, or harassing my family. He would ignore the restraining order and come to my elementary school to see me, send packages and threatening letters(one of which told how he would teach me to create a pipe bomb to “blow the bad people up,” and by bad people he was referring to my mother’s family. I was 5 at this time,) and he tried to run over my grandfather. During the times when he would come to my school, he would always say that he loves me and I would reply the same back. To tell you the truth however, I only did it to be polite, cause that’s how I was raised to treat everybody, and when I went to court at 18 to say if I wanted my father to have visitation rights I made that very, very clear.
Moving on to my mother, she’s 61 years old, Filipino born woman who doesn’t work and lives on her SSI, in a house owned my my grandmother. She has Asperger’s which makes her very difficult to go to whenever I’m having a problem because when I try to talk to her, she either ignores me completely, or doesn’t talk to me and walks away. Assuming that is because of her Asperger’s of course. I love her dearly, but as a person I sometimes have a hard time getting along with her. She is a pack rat and lives like a hermit. The only times she goes outside in public is when one of her siblings take her somewhere. She also doesn’t drive. At home she mostly sits on the computer playing games(and sometimes talking to the characters, god forbid) and watching tv. I try to help her as much as I can at home since she’s the only one there, but often times she refuses help. Though she is the oldest sister out of seven siblings(4 sisters, 3 brothers. my mother is 3rd born.) she is often used and manipulated by her youngest sister into helping her raise her kids and being taken advantage of financially, even though she has no money(story on this later).
About me, I’m an art major. I want to make things for a living because I like drawing and working with my hands. Next semester, if I can(more on this later,) I want to change my major from Communication Design to Industrial Design and also double major in Computer Science. I have a boyfriend in the Navy and we’ve been together for 8(going on 9) months already. He was one of my best friends in high school, so we know each other very well. Because he’s in the Navy I don’t get to see him very often, but whenever I do I always love spending time with him. The way we connect is just amazing, and it really does lead me to believe that he will marry me someday, assuming I make it that far. Aside from him, I have two other best friends. I also have a few other friends, but they’re not people I would trust my life with.
I’m pretty sure this is getting to become a really long read, and I’m sorry for that. I’ll try to shorten everything up as I end it, and if you have any questions please leave them for me to answer asap.
1. At the end of the year I will have to pay my school a little over $1,800 because I didn’t receive enough financial aid at the beginning of the year. For many months I worried how I would take care of this, and I’m pretty sure this is the main cause of how I am now. My mother said she would take out a loan to pay for this, but due to her low income and another problem I will list in a second, I worry if this is such a bright idea.
2. My aunt, the youngest sister, has a cake business that she runs in her home. She wanted to expand her house so her business would have more room, but she needed some money to do it. Here’s the problem: she took $1,000 out of my mom’s checking account to pay for the construction. The money that came out of my mom’s account was actually supposed to be from my grandma’s account instead. That left my mom with no money in that account, and made the rest of my family pissed beyond all hell. Except my grandma. She said that we were picking on the youngest aunt for a mistake. Anyway, my grandma and my oldest uncle(1st born out of the 7) are supposed to be coming back from Florida to help my mom out of this situation. I really hope they come back soon, cause that money was my mom’s living money AND my school money.
3. That aunt who fucked up my mother’s money is also the one that pays her bills. Or I should say, was supposed to pay her bills but always paid them late. This has led to her getting her water shut off on many an occasion, along with some other fuck ups, and now my family is deciding to switch control over to the 2nd oldest sister to help my mom out. Which is about time they did that too. Because I’m never home, I often worry about how my mom is doing. If they can change control I might have to worry a little less in the end.
4. My grandma is an ornery person. She doesn’t seem to like anybody. Which is strange, because before my grandpa died she was the nicest, most energetic old lady ever. Which is a shame. Now she doesn’t like me, or my boyfriend, or my cousins, or my mom. It doesn’t seem she likes anybody anymore, and I hate being around her now because every time I talk to her she makes me feel like shit. Which ties around to…
6. My aunts(2nd oldest and youngest) both seem to hate me. The youngest just hates me, and the 2nd oldest just makes me feel like a failure. Constantly. I hate going to family gatherings now because every time I do I always just want to walk out of the house and start crying.
7. Also because of my money situation, I don’t know if I’ll even be able to go to school next year. I’m trying to transfer to a cheaper school and I’ve already filled out my fafsa, but if I can’t pay off this year’s amount I don’t know if I’m even going to be able to transfer. In order to do that I need to send my transcript from this school, but there’s a hold on it because I still owe money.
…Oh man I hope that’s everything. But yeah, I don’t have many friends, I don’t trust many people, I’m in a financial hole, my family makes me feel like crap, and my mom is in a bad situation that if it get’s any worse will fuck me up royally. I have too many problems that I don’t know how to fix, and I don’t even think that I can fix them. I feel worthless, and anxious and get panic attacks all the time, and it’s driving me insane. I feel as if I don’t even know myself anymore. I don’t want to kill myself, I just want a way out. But it seems like it might happen.
To tell you the truth, a few weeks ago I had planned on doing it. I was going to do it after spring break, so it would have been like this week or next week. But now, I feel like the situation’s changed and if i did it now that would be too soon. I’m just really confused about everything.
So could anyone please comment? I really would like to talk.
26 comments
What is the wizard name
I think i no him
The wizard doesn’t have a name. He’s just a character. You can know someone who is LIKE this wizard, but I doubt you know him exactly. :/
Sorry about you don’t get to see your boy friend much. This prob not help you much But in life sometime’s people grow apart like you say his in the navy life is about change.. Education cost money but worthwhile. Computer science design. You could use it in gamin ind Design games? Make lot’s of money. Money give’s you freedom.
You’ve written that?! It’s awesome! I really like it, you seem to have a talent for this kind of things. It’s like one of those stories that teach you a wise lesson. Just that this one only teaches sadness. 🙁
You’re family’s not making it easy for you. I’m sorry but I don’t really know how to help you in this situation. Too many relatives; I’ve lost the overview…
Is there a possibility you could earn some money? On Saturdays or something. But not very funny in combination with school I guess. What about your boyfriend? I don’t know anything about the NAVY. Do they really pay him or just keep him alive?! I’m sure he would help you out.
I think you should definitely put some pressure on our family to solve the issue of who takes care of your mother.
And inform the school about our financial problems. They can’t just sit around because in the end it’s about their money. Maybe they can offer advise.
There are many people here who are eager to talk. Including me.
I wish you all the best
(how can you write something like that at 2am???)
I don’t think we’re growing apart, I just don’t get to see him much. And yeah, that’s why I don’t want to stop going to college. I want to do something worthwhile and an education will help get me a good job. If i wasn’t able to continue going to school I’d have to get a crappy job in food service and work full time. And if that happened the confidence in myself will sink even lower that it already is. I’m wondering if that happened, would I even have it in myself to return to school? I don’t think I would be smart enough if that happened. I don’t know if I’m smart enough now, I just know that college is making me feel like I still have something.
And I would like to work in game design, particularly concept design for characters and backgrounds, but if i plan on taking Industrial Design I’m going to make products instead. That combined with Computer Design, and with that I’ll be repairing computers, should at least get me a job somewhere. That’s why I’m trying not to kill myself, but god damn there’s just too much going on with my life right now. I’m having a hard time dealing with it all.
@ razor wire
I went to bed at 2 am. I started writing that at 12…12:30…?
And I guess I’m good with writing, I used to write crappy fanfiction when I was 13, and the last time I wrote anything was probably 2 or 3 years ago.
My boyfriend actually does make a decent amount of money in the Navy, and he said he would help me with it. I was really reluctant in him helping me at first, but now I kinda accept it. However, he’s only able to give me about $300 to help pay with my school. I need to take a loan out with my mom to cover most of it, and then with whatever amount remains I can figure out how to pay the rest off.
And yeah, sorry, I do have a lot of relatives. We were really close when I was younger, but now everyone’s gotten older and moving apart. 🙁
I’m trying to get everything straightened out. It has to start at home first, cause that’s where I’ve been told I would get help. Also, when i went to the financial aid office they told me that I could take out a loan(which is the one I’m trying to get my mom to help me with.) The only problem with this is that due to all of the problems going on back home my mom’s had to push it off to the side. I want to sign it by May, and with that deadline closing, it’s really freaking me out.
Maybe it’s good in a way his not there. you just focus more on school
@blackqwert
He’s not here, but we still text and talk to each other a lot. If I didn’t have him at all though, I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t even be here right now. He’s helped me through so much, and I really owe him a lot. He’s the best to me. He really is.
So you got someone who care’s for you. Your in school.
Your got a future. Just got to fined a way to pay for Education.
@blackqwert
Yeah, that’s why I’m trying not to give up.
I came here for that. Even though this site is full of people who want to end it, I also know that there are people who are trying to keep from drowning as well.
You be ok your just at shit age.
Yeah, 19 going on 20 is interesting. I’m an adult but I can legally buy alcohol yet. But since the only time I drink is New Year’s, that’s really not a problem.
Guess I won’t become an alcoholic in the future, huh?
Youe becomin a adult?
not there yet bein a adult not hard your got a job
know there your at.
Bein 19 is bullshit
blackqwert your fav word or bullshit
sorry your favorite word is bullshit
It’s not?
then whats your favorite word
Not sure
haha well mines is fuck.
i say it way to much. haha
Suck’s we hight jackin Xia post.
haha i am sorry xia
Me too
Word
This is why I hate this real world..
‘Cuz everything seems to revolve around that damn Money thing,
it made talented & full of potential people like you, Xia, have to sort of dealing with TWICE the pressures in life, all simply because of that damn Money thing.
Heck,.I’ve even read of how some greatest artists, and scientists, they killed themselves after they saw how UNFAIR this earthly life seems to be, all because of that damn Money thing.
I’m just having this hope that as the capitalistic system is currently broken down,.that things will really start to change for better, also for people like you, Xia.
Let’s just cross our hands for that..
But in the mean time, I strongly believe that you have to do what you KNOW you have to do.
You must try to firstly handle the home’ situation, no matter how ‘bad’ it has become (we all know how Life can even got more painful seemingly when we get older…although it DOESN’T always have to be like that!..)
Brave yourself..
Perhaps if you’re afraid, you can ask for strengths and helps from other persons as well. How about ur siblings?
Or the fafsa guy?
I’m sure there must be somebody who will care and will help you with ur problems.
Sure, you can always try to do it by yourself,.but usually it’s much harder to handle it alone…but again, the final choice/decision is always in YOU.
I would say that if education is really very important to you, then you need to FIGHT for it and don’t ever let ANYone or ANYthing destroying and manipulating you & ur dreams.
They are usually just bitter people in life,
but you don’t have to sort of ‘descend’ and become like them also. You can CHANGE if you want.
So be strong, be bold, and fight for ur rights,
because it’s worth the fight…..for you to keep stay Alive, and Living, in this earthly existence.
you can talk to your school on financial help, including loans through the school itself, I hate relying on loans myself, I’m already in debt for ER bills, phone bills, and student loans. I know I can never get out of, because I can’t work a normal job, I can’t be the type of person to deal with other people. If your mom can’t pull the loan out, you school should be able to help you, even the new school, you just have to shop around for the right loan agency, get all of the debts into one bill, it’ll lower the interest rate too. I hear SallyMae is a good enough agency, just don’t go through students to do your job for you.
It’s a shame what your family does to itself. I don’t even accept my family, they’ve outcast me from the day I was born. They are in so much more debt than I am, but I was the smart one that refuses to rely on money to do anything in my life. yeah, at most I owe $3000 in all, but they owe somewhere in the $100k each. It’s possible to live a good life without that stress on money. I’m actually doing a sort of strike on life, I’m starting it Monday, and how it works for me is I’m refusing to pay things that I don’t need to survive. I don’t need to pay for gas, when I can walk to my destinations, I don’t need to pay restaurants or movies to have fun or hang out with friends for free, I don’t need to dine out when I can make food for cheaper, and I’m only eating a minimal amount to survive on. This is my way to tell the government, I don’t need them or their bull shit money to live. I can live for free legally. I would like more people to participate any way they can to get the message across, but I’m not forcing anyone either.
@ blackqwert and life sucks
Aww, it’s ok. sometimes mini conversations happen under the large conversation umbrella. 🙂
@ niki
Yeah, I agree that money can be a big problem, especially if you can’t make enough of it to cover all your needs. An with this economy? People are having a harder and harder time each day. One can only hope that it gets better soon.
I’m trying to get help from everywhere. I’m trying to get help from my family, from the school, and from my friends even. I’m just really hoping that something will work out soon from this big tangled knot of a mess my life has turned into.
And yeah, I realize now that education is important. When all this mess began I considered dropping out of school because I didn’t know if I could pay for it. But now I realize that if I can make it all the way to graduation then I promised myself to pay back any family or friends who helped me, and i will pay them back in full no matter how long it takes. I will owe them big time if I don’t. 🙂
@ ConstantDisaster
I hate loans too. But the loan the school said I could take out is a parent plus loan, and as soon as my mom can fix the problem back home she said she’d help me with that one.
I basically live on the bare minimum. I walk everywhere cause I don’t have a car, my food comes from the dining hall but since I don’t use up all my meal points I just buy food with it and stockpile cause we can’t cook in the dorms, and the average amount of money I spend a month is $25 for my phone plan. I don’t have the money to go out to buy dinner or the movies, but I’m still managing fine. I still am trying to find a better job though cause I need it. 😛