I met my X-Bestfriend about 5 years ago. Let us call him X. I met X when I was in 7th grade, I was his first REAL friend. We were like brother and sister. Last year some fucking ***** said to him “Try this its not dangerous, its just a fun thing”.. DRUGS! That fucking ***** let him try it, now he is not that guy I once met for 5 years ago. My friends says ” You should be proud of yourself”. But I´m not, I feel like shiit. I dont eat, I dont wanna feel pain anymore. I´ve allready lost three close friends, one of them, he took his life, and their other died in an accident. And now I´m loosing X. The worst thing, I have tried to save him from drugs, but he choose the drugs infront of our friendsship.
I´m so angry I dont know if I should cry, laugh or just vanish from this world. It feels like I dont got anyone to turn to, but I do, I´m talking to my closest friend all the time, but I dont feel better. When I´m talking to my friend I´ve got so much aggression. I dont know what to do…
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Hey, same thing happened with me. I had a friend since I was in 1st-7th grade. Around that time she turned to drugs and I just couldn’t deal with it. I knew she was the “rebellious impressionable” type. If she thought something looked cool or would make her look cool she would do it. But for some reason I didn’t see drugs coming her way. Now she’s a stoner. It was just recently I decided to give her a chance in being my friend. Even now we barely talk. Now I’m in 12th. :/ I miss our friendship. Just keep trying to help or tell him that he’s not the guy you knew back then. I can say that even though my ex best friend took a turn for the worse, our friendship and all, I miss her every day. I regret letting us depart.
It´s very hard to let one of your closest friend go… But u should think this way, u are a strong person, u should proud of ur self that u havent fall down to the drugs. But I dont understand why a person, a kindest person I´ve ever known choose drugs..Its wrong and unfear..
You can’t make X’s choices for him; you can only offer him advice. That being said, it sounds to me like you’ve done your duty as a friend.
However, some people hate taking advice and need to learn things the hard way. If X is anything like a certain someone I know, then continuing to directly confront him about his drug use will be counterproductive.
X needs to realize on his own that drugs are having a negative impact on his life in order for him to make real and meaningful changes in his habits.
Losing friends can be tough, but you need to remember that there is always someone out there who cares about you. You may not think of them as a friend, but someone you know is willing to listen and willing to help.
But its so much I wanna do for him… He was like my brother !! Sorry I´m not angry with u, but I dont understand He do this to himself and to us, his nearest and dearest… He dont understand how much I love him, but he dosent care.
I want to do his choice for him, cause he cant see the differents between right and wrong, he need someone who can tell him that.
DEN JÄVLA FITTAN HAR FÖRSTÖRT HANS LIV! … sorry it not for u
): then be there as much as you can be.. In the end it is his decision, I hope he chooses the right one <3
I hope he choose the right one too, cause if he dosent, I dont think that I can handle so much more.. <3
If u dnt mind me asking? What kind of drug did he start doing? I’m just curious because I have been through dif stages and iv used pretty much all drugs that I’ve had the chance to expiriment with… and I’m a guy… I dnt know if I could help for sure or not but I could try n give some input on wat it would be like in his shoes. Because iv worn a lot of dif shoes n my life lol… good and bad… 🙂
If u dnt mind me asking? What kind of drug did he start doing? I’m just curious because I have been through dif stages and iv used pretty much all drugs that I’ve had the chance to expiriment with… and I’m a guy… I dnt know if I could help for sure or not but I could try n give some input on wat it would be like in his shoes. Because iv worn a lot of dif shoes n my life lol… good and bad…
He started with Cannabis, and he have been trying Ecstasy.