If a guy doesnt like you, you cant force it. Liking someone who doesnt truly like you back hurts the more you keep focusing on it. I’m not sure if this makes much sense to you. Hopefully you understand what i mean.
I have a feeling so many people like this guy and I am crap at flirting. Crap at it.
But I’m too impatient to stick around long enough to wait and see if he could like me at some point.
Love sucks.
just don’t do the ‘sleep with him right away’, wont get him to like or respect you. and yeah i’m a guy, but i don’t do the sleeping around anymore, and i can see how pointless it was. fun, but pointless, it was lusting the girl, not liking. as ‘umbra artist’ said, flirt, and chat, find some common ground, something you both like and talk about that, guys like a girl with an intrest and a passion for it, well guys youd want to stick around do anyway, and if they don’t like what you liek and have no intention in even listening to you about it, then they arn’t right anyway, so it’s no loss to you.
Nah, I’m not really that kind of person anyway. And yes, I chat to him all the time!! And we always talk about music, even though we have different tastes.
well that sounds promising, is it that hes not interested in ‘that’ way then? any bands you like in common? or a club that plays music you both like, could always invite him out for some drinks there, it’s putting the idea across you like him as more of a friend then.
well you have to think how bad you want to be with him more than a friend.
you’ll find it’s easy once you do it, i realise the problem is doing it, but then it’s only a question of heading out together, it’s only going slow. you can always ask him in a way of saying something like “i got nothing to do this weekend, everyone seems busy, i wanted to go out” and that way it’s in his court to ask if you want to head out with him. so you don’t have to do the asking.
you don’t have to be. if you want to know, look for the signs. does he text you alot in the morning and night, does he try to get into what you like (you said you have different music tastes but talk about it anyway) and does he remember little things you say, even in passing. if he does, then it’s for sure hes interested
ahright, well in school it’s easy. got yto try and overcome the nerves and just ask to meet outside of school. if he talks to you alot then its a good sign at that age. thats what i was like in school. any excuse to talk sort of thing. i can near guarentee he’d want to see you outside of school, just you and him. if thats too much then invite him out in a group, you can see then, if he chooses to talk to you most of the time, then he clearly feels the same way
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If a guy doesnt like you, you cant force it. Liking someone who doesnt truly like you back hurts the more you keep focusing on it. I’m not sure if this makes much sense to you. Hopefully you understand what i mean.
Yeah, I get it. But I can’t help it! It’s so bad.
Flirt. 😉 Always works for me haha but yeah you can’t really make someone like you. I guess I’m just lucky or too f***ing charming. Bleh. Outies~
I have a feeling so many people like this guy and I am crap at flirting. Crap at it.
But I’m too impatient to stick around long enough to wait and see if he could like me at some point.
Love sucks.
just don’t do the ‘sleep with him right away’, wont get him to like or respect you. and yeah i’m a guy, but i don’t do the sleeping around anymore, and i can see how pointless it was. fun, but pointless, it was lusting the girl, not liking. as ‘umbra artist’ said, flirt, and chat, find some common ground, something you both like and talk about that, guys like a girl with an intrest and a passion for it, well guys youd want to stick around do anyway, and if they don’t like what you liek and have no intention in even listening to you about it, then they arn’t right anyway, so it’s no loss to you.
Nah, I’m not really that kind of person anyway. And yes, I chat to him all the time!! And we always talk about music, even though we have different tastes.
well that sounds promising, is it that hes not interested in ‘that’ way then? any bands you like in common? or a club that plays music you both like, could always invite him out for some drinks there, it’s putting the idea across you like him as more of a friend then.
Yeah, I think he just likes me as a friend, and I don’t have enough confidence to do that 🙁
well you have to think how bad you want to be with him more than a friend.
you’ll find it’s easy once you do it, i realise the problem is doing it, but then it’s only a question of heading out together, it’s only going slow. you can always ask him in a way of saying something like “i got nothing to do this weekend, everyone seems busy, i wanted to go out” and that way it’s in his court to ask if you want to head out with him. so you don’t have to do the asking.
Yeah, but I’d want to know for sure before I did that whether he’s interested. Ugh, I’m so difficult!
you don’t have to be. if you want to know, look for the signs. does he text you alot in the morning and night, does he try to get into what you like (you said you have different music tastes but talk about it anyway) and does he remember little things you say, even in passing. if he does, then it’s for sure hes interested
I dunno, I always catch him staring at me, and he always turns around to talk to me. (We’re only in year ten)
ahright, well in school it’s easy. got yto try and overcome the nerves and just ask to meet outside of school. if he talks to you alot then its a good sign at that age. thats what i was like in school. any excuse to talk sort of thing. i can near guarentee he’d want to see you outside of school, just you and him. if thats too much then invite him out in a group, you can see then, if he chooses to talk to you most of the time, then he clearly feels the same way
Thanks, you’ve pretty much cleared my stupidness on this subject. Hahaha, 🙂
lol, well we’re all here to help. thats the point. hopfully things will work out. the nerves are hard to get over, but you’ll get there.