wife couldnt last 3 day without alcohol asked her not to but oh well. trying to get my affairs in order but whats the use, family’s fucked with or without me . trying to put the happy face a work thats becoming difficult. Thanks Kemp I heard yiou through the noise in my head for a moment. My daughter is really special , this is gonna hurt her. that hurts too thinking ways now. walmart should make a gun purchase easy. would like to make it look like a natural but need to get out soon. bummed its come to this, i think my kids love me but not sure it’s enough to keep me goin. trying real hard not to let on, getin hard to do that , staring to think of taken people with me , thats not good , cant say help. lithuanian pride.help. dont want to hurt people. I not know where to turn. want to disappear fso no one hurts from my action. this sucks I used to smile.
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Hey, I just lost my fiances child through miscarriage. Im jealous you even have loving children and got the chance to be a father. Please reconsider. You have something worth it, even through your children.
it sounds like you are in a lot of pain, but if you think it isn’t going to hurt your daughter/ other children, think again. i mean, i think that way too- i don’t have kids, but about people in my life. i think it won’t really matter, they will just go on and be okay. i think maybe that’s normal, especially when you are in pain and depressed.
but i’ve been on the other side- the one whose loved one commits suicide (that one was with a gun, his dad and his brother found him… ultimately, someone is going to have to find you, and be scarred for life)- and that is a deep, deep pain that now, even 10 years later hasn’t gone away. it’s like a wound that never completely heals. and you are left with so much guilt wondering if you could have done something. and if it was a parent that you lost to suicide, i can only imagine how much worse that would make it.
your post made me think of these lyrics from a song by tori amos. in the song is a conversation from one mother to another mom who is suicidal
“they’ll never get over this
for their life time, all their wishes will be dashed upon those cliffs…
…you’ll leave them with emptiness for their lifetime
and all their wishes will be dashed upon those cliffs…”
that doesn’t make what you are going through any easier, or offer any solutions. i think posting here is a first step in learning to ask for help. perhaps there are even other sites online that could offer information about the things you are struggling with? and asking for help doesn’t make you weak. it takes a lot of courage to be that vulnerable. and we aren’t meant to have to deal with everything on our own.
Yes that sounds like good insight into it, please update us how u feel.