Who do you go to for help when you are afraid to tell your doctors you want to die again? Knowing your doctors will lock you up in the hospital again for the fourth time. I can’t go though that again. I can’t afford to end up there again. I am still paying for the bills from the last three times I told the doctors the truth about my feeling of ending the suffering. Through the years I have tried all the drugs. All the new expensive ones that the doctor promises will help. I have even tried the many illegal mind altering drugs. I have tried drowning my sorrow in booze. I have tried every and all ideas I have heard of from doctors and therapists I have been paying for many years. I have been hypotized, been shocked with ECT 14 times. I have tried doing everything from going out in public to joining groups and taking up new hobbies. I have tried dance classes. I have even tried skydiving, motorcycling and even S&M. But nothing has taken the pain I feel every minute of every day away for very long. In fact most of them just made it worse. I have suffered this pain everyday and night for 15 years now. I have tried suicide 3 times already. But they always bring me back, lock me up and then adds more drugs to my daily routine.  All the ECT treatments have made it hard to remember anything for very long including my passwords and address. Now I have to write everything down to be able to remember it. But I still find the pain there without even thinking about it. It won’t release me. I need to end this suffering now.
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This is why I think this whole stopping people from committing suicide thing is bs. Have you told your doctor that that crap doesn’t help? Have you tried stopping the treatment?
Wow, I’ve always wanted to take skydiving. Lucky you. 🙂
Yes it was amazing feeling the air whip past. Now I am just sorry I pulled the chute. Then it would of been over.
Have u tried nature?
Go out there and get immersed and soaked in the smell of the morning leaves, trees, listen to the symphony of chirping birds, crickets, etc..
‘Cuz maybe what we modern humans often already forget is: perhaps we are meant to live & co-exist (becoming One) together with the Mother Nature.
Yes I have tried to become one with nature. Sitting on the shore of a lake watching the sunrise only to start crying when I realize the cruel trick mother nature has played on me. Letting me be born in the wrong body. Unable to feel the the gift of life growing in my stomach. Unable to feel the happiness and Love the other women around me talk about. Unable to belong to someone. Unable to experience the joy of being Loved by someone just by being me. Haven’t God punished me enough for for what ever I did to be born this way.
I dunno tiffany.It looks like you’ve tried almost everything.Just try to cling onto something that makes you feel good.One thing I will say though is that Doctors haven’t helped you- all those electric shocks and drugs could have made you worse.No one knows how the brain works properl,that’s why I never trust them
I have been unable to sleep even with the sleeping pills for days knowing I have to see my Doctor Tuesday and don’t want to tell him I am feeling suicidal again. I can’t take being locked up in that hospital again. I haven’t even paid off my last 2 month stay yet. Yet I know he will see the tears on my face without me saying anything. I know he wants to help me but he has no idea what it is like to be in the wrong body. He has no idea how hard it is for me to get up everyday and face the day trapped alone and afraid someone might find out I am not a real woman. Afraid to let anyone into my life for fear of being rejected yet again. Oh please god forgive me for I must do. I just can’t take it anymore. The pain is just too great. World I hope someday you can understand how you treat people different then you. I pray you can see 18 years of pain is more then anyone can take. May God have pity on me for what I am going to do today. Bye cruel world
have you tried praying? and listening to God? He’s what pulled me out of what was happening with me! life is a *****. it sucks sometimes, but if you find the good in everything then, well, it doesnt suck. we as humans, weren’t made to fit in. thats what i gotta say.