I love how i always get told “your beautiful, your so skinny, you are good enough for anyone” when will people realize i am not beautiful i am not skinny and i will never be good enough for the one i want to be with. I want to be with him but i am not like his girlfriend. even though he always tell me i really like you i want to be with you but we cant cuz im with her. why cant i be good enough. i have never felt this strong about someone and i dont understand how he cant see that i just get it. does he want my face covered in makeup like her? does he want me to be 90 pounds? does he want my legs to stay open like walmart? i just dont get it. I will lose 43 pounds just for him. i would do anything for him but i need to know what he wants!! please tell me! if you want me dead tell me ill kill myself…….
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YOU are good enough. HE isn’t good enough for you. THAT’S what’s going on. I know you love him, but don’t waste your time on him. Don’t lose 43 pounds or 30 or whatever for him. He’s not worth it. Find someone who will love you for who you are.
I love that walmart comment, btw. Hahaha.
but i want to be with him so bad. and he said he was waiting for the next time they fight to leave her. but wouldnt he have already left her to be with me if he really wanted too???
“but wouldnt he have already left her to be with me if he really wanted too???”
Yes.
In a relationship like this it’s bad news now or bad news later. YOU choose. If you show you have some strength of your own you stand more chance of a result than giving him everything he wants. If you give him everything you have he will despise you.
You really need to get away.
Then why dont i just die thats how every guys is
What causeway said. He would have left her already if he wanted to be with you. He’s toying with you. It’s like he’s controlling you.
Don’t die over this idiot, please. You’re worth so much more.
“Then why dont i just die thats how every guys is”
Every guy is not like this. Either you’ve been unlucky, or you’re attracted to this type because they’re like this, and you need to find out why, and how to stop it. Dating guys like this is simply inviting a bastard to beat you up. Would you hand some creep your life and ask him to destroy it? I wouldn’t regard your death as suicide – I would regard it as murder.
@JPR
Thank you for making me smile
I needed to smile truthfully today
The wal-mart joke was quite funny.
I’m sorry to hear all that. I would say
something but I don’t feel as though
I have anything worth saying in regards
to your issues…sorry.
That guy is toying with you and he isn’t worth it. Committing suicide isn’t going to do anything. He probably doesn’t want to break up with his girlfriend but if he won’t to be your boyfriend then he doesn’t realize how lucky he is for you to like him. I struggle every day in school thinking whether or not I’m good enough and sometimes I think to myself “I am good enough and anyone who doesn’t realize isn’t worth struggling over.” Don’t try to loose weight for some guy. If your weight isn’t unhealthy don’t bother. And don’t agonize for that guy. He isn’t worthy of you liking him.
I’d say your not doing your self any favors by fawning over that dude. I mean he IS in a committed relationship. Even if he says he would leave he hasn’t. People will always complain about their significant other to opposite gender friends. It doesn’t mean that they’ll leave that person or they don’t care about them. If her were to leave his GF for you is that the type of person you would want to date? Do not wait for someone. Ever! You’re fixated on someone who really isn’t “that” interested. It has nothing to do with you. It wouldn’t surprise me if there is someone around you that you’re overlooking because your so into your crush.
He is the only one who actually understands me and accepts me for me….