there is one person, who i always consider my brother. sometimes more then my brother. today i went to meet him.
he said that on tuesday he will go and meet my ex girlfriend and try to get back us together.
now guys, i dont know whether i should listen to him or not. coz he is been telling me the same thing for last 4 months. and every passing day is making my life more and more worse.
and plus its valentine on tuesday, which will bring back many many painfull memories.
guys, please tell me what to do? should i listen to him?
i am afraid that he will again break my trust. again fool me. which will increase more pain.
i know that i really miss her, and i know that if she returns i might have some hope. coz she is very lucky for me. i dont know how, but she is very very lucky for me. and its not just belief and superstition. its just that i am extremely relaxed and comfortable knowing that she is there for me. but the fact is, she dint contact me even once in last 4 months. not even single day. i think she knows my mom expired two months ago, but still she dint call me even once.
now on top of that she changed her cell phone and now she is in relation with some other guy.
how will he fix this? how will i get the girl who i truly loved and who loved be equally back?
what if he goes there but doesnt meet her? what if she avoids him? means there is no contact number nothing.
what if she changed her residence?
please tell me what to do?
please. i am leaving this decision on you all. should i wait for more 2 days?
i mean its like a gamble, but looking at the probability, i am sure i will end up with more pain. plus i have heard him speaking with my sister that they are not going to allow me get back with her.
i dont know what to do. please help.
please reply soon.
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i am sure, i will get more pain in return. i just thought now, and there is no way that the girl is coming back in my life.
absolutely no chance she is coming back.
u never know, if she doesnt return in your life it is probaly for the best
It looks like she doesnt care for you, you need to let her go…
that is what i am doing. i am letting her go. i am not doing anything to get her back.
but if she comes back, things can change. but it is almost impossible that she will come back.
i am confused.
so what should i do?
go with him on tuesday or not?
dunno…
listen to your intuition
if you go and dont get her back, say to yourself so what…
there are plenty other beautiful women out there
its not about women, its about the luck.
http://suicideproject.org/2012/02/i-need-help-i-really-need-to-get-out-of-this-world-please-help/
take a look
hm…
Life is probably trying to tell you something…
Your essence (soul) is not finished with this body yet…
You are running away from this task that u were given(this body)
Maybe it is time to stop trying to kill yourself and stay and see what life brings you…
did that. turns out there is ocean of pain infront of me.
you are not the only one…
we all suffer…
i know that these words dont do much…
but i am asking you to stay and see what life brings you…
why dont you ask yourself:What do i need to learn from this situation?
Dont always give automatic negative meaning to your pain…
Pain is a good sign that u need to let go and stop being so focused on this and that…
if u try for a while there is probably something good instore for you…
Let him try. There is nothing to lose in trying. If nothing happens then you are in no worse position. I have never become too attached to anybody which is probably why I don’t understand. To me this wouldn’t be a big deal and I sometimes like being alone because most people in the real world are jerks.
it is nice when you dont need somebody to make you happy… then it is easy…
attachment is not healthy for the mind… you only have yourself so… if that girl wants you fine, if she doesnt fine also
well, she was the only one i had when my dad expired.
mom had dementia, so she forgot dad expired
you dont have her anymore so move on…
Well, at the point that you are, I think that you have nothing to lose to try…
If it work with her.. maybe you gonna have a new hope to do your life…
And if it don’t work… it just gonna confirm you that your time have come…
But if you don’t try.. you will never know so take a chance my friend 🙂
you are right. thanks. i will do it 🙂
got my answer, he started to say things like we cant go tomorrow, its not possible. etc etc. he said he will tell final in the morning.
so will get my answer in the morning.
mostly my time has come. and to add worst matters, i am getting a crush on my best friends girlfriend. that is a real real bad thing. i mean, i am kind of a guy who can split them apart in one day. and i dont want to do this to my best friend.
atleast i will be able to stop myself from doing this. tomorrow morning everything will be final.
actually it is final.
Dude you have a crush on a girl that’s no big deal even if she’s with your best mate
bro, i am from india. its like taboo here?
i mean betraying your best friend? god thats the worst thing?
and the worst part is, i can split them up.
coz she had a crush on me before she started talking to him on frequent basis,
guys, if i said anything false, and speaking rule please ignore me,
i am so drunk that icant even stand up of feel my face.
please really ignore me. i will be in total senses tomorrow.
Feelings are not betrayal