So my wife left me about one month ago. She was constantly lying to me. We would agree on something and she would do the total opposite. I would ask her question and know she was lying.
She is 10 years younger than me….and I had more wealth when we got married. She now makes more money than me. She also sign pre-nup before we got married. I brought a house with the money i sold from my apartment and the house is under my name.
Well fast forward a year later…she tells me that she want the house under her name and she won’t help with the house anymore. I am able to take care of the house on my own…but to have a wife that doesn’t help me with the house so she can put all her money in the bank…doesn’t make sense. She isn’t my girlfriend..but my wife.
If she is holding her name on the deed as a condition of staying in the marriage…well to me that is red flag…why did she bring the topic now …and not when i brought the house. How do i know that in 3 month she won’t be just leaving me?
She should feel the security in me alone. It’s not the clothes a man wears but; the man himself. And it not like she is poor..she makes more money than me.
I know most of the woman here would say I should sign my life away and give the deed. but she isn’t a child. She sign the pre-nup years before…she didn’t say anything when I brought the house…she waited a year later after i brought the house to talk about this…what the hell is that about.
With no-fault divorce you don’t need an excuse anymore to get a divorce. You just don’t have to feel like being married anymore – and with that reality comes the truth – a marriage is no longer a contract, so what’s the point except to put yourself and your future at risk when someone “doesn’t feel like it anymore?”
Well anyway..i was at work one day…she called in sick..took her stuff and left me. She won’t talk to me…hence she left me no choice but get a divorce.
I am so depress….i can’t take this sadness anymore sometimes
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What a *****.
You know what’s right.
You can get through this rough time!!!
hey there this world….did a quick reading as I have been on this site most of the afternoon and gotta go now ..
and I’m a woman and I wouldn’t say sign your life away. I’d say take your time in deciding.
i married a guy 7 years younger than myself and I learned the hard way that at least in my case he didn’t know what the heck he wanted though he said he did I was too ignorant to notice it was all generalities, a smoke screen he didn’t even know he was blowing. Anyway, my credit score was excellent, I was frugal, thought his family was too and the he was..he didn’t appear flashy but I know now to check more thoroughly turns out he was just irresponsible and it cost me a lot.
you don’t write much about if you love her or if she loved you or how long you were married or if you have children….just the funds. Is there more to this than just the finances?
Sometimes we get used by the very person we trust and dedicate our lives to.
And to learn that our investment in them is unappreciated is a blow that can devastate the spirit.
I truly hope you do not allow her betrayals to keep you down.
Nothing to be worried about. It happens. People change, things change. But now you can sit in front of the tv all day watching sports and drinking beer with no one to complain.
Change the locks quick before she changes her mind and comes “home” and takes YOUR stuff out!
She want’s to leave – good riddance – no more lies – and you have the pre-nup – don’t compromise it.
3X dawg