So.. Im new to this whole site.. but i have no one to talk to .-. and i just need that? So basicly.. im 15.. and well i wasnt raised in a broken home, or in a bad area or anything like that. But when i look in the mirror.. i just hate what i see x-x im fat, and ugly, and disgusting.. no guy has ever tried anything with me, never had a boy friend, never had a kiss, i havent had anything. and i go to school, im only a freshman, but i see all these couples.. and i go places and see couples.. and i just want that. I want somone to love me? I have been avoiding school for the past few months like i miss a few days EVERY week. and it affects my grades horribly. I used to have a 3.5-3.8 Gpa.. now im not even at 1. Im failing in life._. So I found this.. site? or game thing.. like virtual talking and like your own little charecter.. and i made someone friends and yeah i know im pathetic.. but its the only pplace i feel accepted, and cared for? anyway.-. I put fake pictures.. because i was afraid id get rejected even there.. and iv been on it for about a year now, and i met people and made friends their that i love, like we talk on the phone, and get along, and all of it.. and i even “date” people.. and i know for a lot of people they say its stupid because yea i know its not real.. but when u text someone, and talk to them for hours upon hours, it starts to feel real? So anyway.. i got with this guy ._. his name is zach.. and he made me so happy, like he made me forget about how much i just hated myself, and my life. He owuld text me everysingle morning.. all day long, all night.. and i love him.. and i understand hardly none of you will get it.. but i did, i fell in love with him, and we talk about being together for real, and having a life together.. and i want that with him.. but the thing is._. is he thinks im some skinny blonde girl, when in reality im not.. im nothing like that >_< but he still filled the gap of loneliness i had.. til about 2 weeks ago he totally stopped talking to me.. and i got so worried and scared, and even more depressed, i cry myself to sleep.. everysingle night, and it isnt a couple tears cry.. its that cry where to have to shove your face into a pillow so no one can hear.. after a week of silence i got a text from his number, it was a guy claiming ot be zachs best friend.. telling me zach was in a crash and in the hospital.. i talked to his “friend” for about 2 days.. and he suddenly stopped answering.__. i have no i dea whats going on.. its been another week since i’ve heard anything..and my heart is just so broken..everytime im alone my thoughts and memories over whelm me.. and i just cry, i dread having to go to bed because i know that before i fall asleep im going to cry for a good hour.. and theres nothing i can do.__. he filled my life with the happiness i didnt have.. and now i dont know what to do.. i havent gone to school, i havent left my room, my parents assume im just ‘fat and lazy’ but its not it ._. im just hurting >_< people are telling me that he might of gotten bored of me.? and just decided to stop talkin.. but i know him, and i know how he is and he would never do anything like that ._. not to me.. I just wish i was never born .. im so worthless.. that saying that ‘everyones good at somthing’ it doesnt apply to me.. because im not good for anything ._. and i hate my life so much..
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You’re worth a lot, don’t think you have to perform or achieve or change to be worth something. You’re worth something because you were born.
Okay? 🙂
The truth sets you free. You gotta tell him the truth. Maybe there is an emotional attachment to you or something. He knows you, but now he’s gotta see you. Don’t lie about who you are. That’s not fair to you. Unfortunately, everyone in high school is an asshole. Maybe try reaching out to some real life people? Even if it is simply the people you meet on the internet and you meet up for coffee after driving five hours to fuck knows where. They “know” your personality and probably could forgive you posting fake photos on the internet. I’m sure most of them have lied about their appearance as well. Just don’t lie about who you are.
So the good news is you’re going to start telling yourself the truth about who you truly are. The reflection you see is based on the broken home you expressed being brought up in. Tell yourself that the unconditional love that your folks didn’t provide for you…You’ll provide for you from now on. Decisions are based on beliefs…so at this moment you believe yourself to be unworthy….etc….practice…and I mean consciously practice every day for 10 min. when you wake up a positive belief about yourself…you can’t get it wrong. After a month because you decided how you wanted to feel good within yourself, you will feel better and more confident and you’ll know how to continue. No one else matters but you, your thoughts, beliefs, feelings…listen to you and follow what makes YOU feel good. You’re world will change for the better. Good luck!
Hey,
softsoul is right. I just wanted to post something pretty similar to your problems ( i am having similar problems like you do) But I decided not to do so.because softsoul could copy his comment into my post. I will take your advice softsoul. I will try to think 10 minutes a day about me and why I am worth living although I am a weird guy :/
I think souftsouls advice is pretty good, try it broken-x-
Wish you good luck too!
@ maybe soon, feel free to msg my email pauld891 at gmail dot com & let me know how things r going. Take care.
You need to stop putting yourself down, be honest if he leaves he’s a dick you seem like a great person your just uncomfortable with yourself, cheer up I wish the best for your friend. : )
YOU DONT HAVE TO BE RELIGEOUS IM NOT BUTPLEASE PRAY FOR HER FRIEND