I’m sorry. I’m so sorry. You are not a loser. I’m not going to be a jerk and tell you why this is bad, but please try not to do this again. I have scars all over and I can’t wear t-shirts or shorts or go swimming. And let me tell it is a horrible feeling to have a little kid walk up to you and ask why you have so many scars.
I’m sorry I can’t say more to help, but I’m in the same boat as you. If it’s hard to stop cutting, slowly wean yourself away from it by cutting your feet. People don’t look there, and it gets kind of annoying when you step on the wounds.
Thanks i have cut my feet b4 but on top.
I havent cut in a ling time. Well except last month but b4 that a Long time. Things are just so hard right now.
That is exactly the way my bicep looks, lettering style and all. It’s hard to have those thoughts in your head, that you’re a loser. My arm has scars that ready everything from loser to kill me. Life sucks sometimes. I hope if someone sees this outside oh here they won’t judge you. I know I don’t.
This picture makes me so sad 🙁
I recently cut & I had so much regret afterwards…my sister saw & told my mom. I almost got emitted, I feel so guilty for putting my mom thru all this & I hate looking at my arm. My mom must feel alot of pain when she sees the cuts every single day 🙁
I’m sorry to hear about your loss /:
And, in a way…I’m glad my sister told my mom…it shows she cares..but I understand that sometimes life is too much..& we get rid of the emotional pain by cutting..
Thanks i am good at a few things but not what normal people are good at.
And ya she does and so does ur mom. I hope u stop cutting. I am getting back in to it so i can do things again. I am suprized i am not gonna tonight. But i like to do it at midnight and thts 10 mins away
Aww…you sound like a really sweet person (:
Honestly, I think I need professional help to stop for good, all the other times..I promised myself I wouldn’t do it again..but sooner or later, it happens again. I think you should stop to..it’s because I care <3
Thanks i want someone to care but i have drained all the people around me. And u should get help it help me when i had it.
And design is easy i think lol one tome i made a building out of popcile sticks and construction paper. Sorry i cant spell i am really dumb i was in speciel ed when i was in high school
Mine are scars now. It’s killing me not to cut anymore Cuz the only place I wanna cut is my arm but when I go to see my mom… Honestly I’m terrified. I haven’t admitted that until now but I’m terrified… My arm is drowned in scars. Including a swastika, ‘i hate myself’ ‘kill myself’ ‘hell’ and so on. I really don’t know what to do when she sees them…
@Dawn, why are you terrified? Because you don’t want her to be sad?…that’s the way I feel. I hate knowing that I’ve hurt my mom because of my cutting 🙁
Not in Florida :/ here I can but not down there.. I’m not gonna be going to the beach in long sleeves everyday.. Too hot there and way too suspicious. More noticeable than just having them uncovered.. :/
Yeah… I can’t dissapoint her. When I first started before she left I only had a couple teeny tiny scratches but when she found out I did it she said crazy people do that and if I did it again she would stick me in a hospital..
Makeup is of limited effect. I mean it makes it less obvious but because the cuts either stick out or dig in from your skin level, it’s pretty hard to cover them completely with, say, concealer. The most I could do was get the lines to look pinkish and fainter, and I needed a lot to achieve that.
ItGirl & Dawn: totally know what you mean. And my parents threatened to hospitalize me too 🙁
I am so proud of my scars. I love the look of them and don’t regret them at all.
I know my mum is hurting because of it but in the end i need to be a little selfish too sometimes (Everyone’s circumstances are different though).
So why not try being confident with your scars? I don’t try to hide them and no one ever seems to notice or care. Maybe people do notice but they see that i am fine with them they are too intimidated to point them out. Although it is funny when they do. The faces they make, haha.
When my mum found out she just went silent and told me to hide them from others. It would have been nice and supportive for your parents to care enough to try and support you to stop. That’s my view from the outside ^_^
I have a large number of scars, but definitely not massive ones. Over 300 on my entire inside forearm. I am also oddly proud of them. It has become my identity, and even if I make it one day, if I do not kill myself, I will never intentionally cover them up.
Right now I walk around and nobody says anything, even with the fresh ones. It validates my “people don’t care” attitude though, which is maybe not good.
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I’m sorry. I’m so sorry. You are not a loser. I’m not going to be a jerk and tell you why this is bad, but please try not to do this again. I have scars all over and I can’t wear t-shirts or shorts or go swimming. And let me tell it is a horrible feeling to have a little kid walk up to you and ask why you have so many scars.
I’m sorry I can’t say more to help, but I’m in the same boat as you. If it’s hard to stop cutting, slowly wean yourself away from it by cutting your feet. People don’t look there, and it gets kind of annoying when you step on the wounds.
Thanks i have cut my feet b4 but on top.
I havent cut in a ling time. Well except last month but b4 that a Long time. Things are just so hard right now.
That is exactly the way my bicep looks, lettering style and all. It’s hard to have those thoughts in your head, that you’re a loser. My arm has scars that ready everything from loser to kill me. Life sucks sometimes. I hope if someone sees this outside oh here they won’t judge you. I know I don’t.
The group i made on facebook called suicide projects have seen it and they havent judged me. Thats one thing i love about you guys.
O lol and this is my leg i am fat too
This picture makes me so sad 🙁
I recently cut & I had so much regret afterwards…my sister saw & told my mom. I almost got emitted, I feel so guilty for putting my mom thru all this & I hate looking at my arm. My mom must feel alot of pain when she sees the cuts every single day 🙁
I am so sorry my mom died a year and a half ago. Its really hard she never knew i did it.
I am sorry ur sister told ur mom. 🙁
I’m sorry to hear about your loss /:
And, in a way…I’m glad my sister told my mom…it shows she cares..but I understand that sometimes life is too much..& we get rid of the emotional pain by cutting..
Thanks i am good at a few things but not what normal people are good at.
And ya she does and so does ur mom. I hope u stop cutting. I am getting back in to it so i can do things again. I am suprized i am not gonna tonight. But i like to do it at midnight and thts 10 mins away
Seeing things others dont. I think differnt. I can design stuff. And i care for people.
Aww…you sound like a really sweet person (:
Honestly, I think I need professional help to stop for good, all the other times..I promised myself I wouldn’t do it again..but sooner or later, it happens again. I think you should stop to..it’s because I care <3
Thanks i want someone to care but i have drained all the people around me. And u should get help it help me when i had it.
And design is easy i think lol one tome i made a building out of popcile sticks and construction paper. Sorry i cant spell i am really dumb i was in speciel ed when i was in high school
Mine are scars now. It’s killing me not to cut anymore Cuz the only place I wanna cut is my arm but when I go to see my mom… Honestly I’m terrified. I haven’t admitted that until now but I’m terrified… My arm is drowned in scars. Including a swastika, ‘i hate myself’ ‘kill myself’ ‘hell’ and so on. I really don’t know what to do when she sees them…
I have no scars yet. Cant u try and cover them up.
I care about you & we have never even met!
@Dawn, why are you terrified? Because you don’t want her to be sad?…that’s the way I feel. I hate knowing that I’ve hurt my mom because of my cutting 🙁
Not in Florida :/ here I can but not down there.. I’m not gonna be going to the beach in long sleeves everyday.. Too hot there and way too suspicious. More noticeable than just having them uncovered.. :/
I saw a show where this girl wore make up to cover them. When i get scars i am gonna do that
Yeah… I can’t dissapoint her. When I first started before she left I only had a couple teeny tiny scratches but when she found out I did it she said crazy people do that and if I did it again she would stick me in a hospital..
Makeup is of limited effect. I mean it makes it less obvious but because the cuts either stick out or dig in from your skin level, it’s pretty hard to cover them completely with, say, concealer. The most I could do was get the lines to look pinkish and fainter, and I needed a lot to achieve that.
ItGirl & Dawn: totally know what you mean. And my parents threatened to hospitalize me too 🙁
I am so proud of my scars. I love the look of them and don’t regret them at all.
I know my mum is hurting because of it but in the end i need to be a little selfish too sometimes (Everyone’s circumstances are different though).
So why not try being confident with your scars? I don’t try to hide them and no one ever seems to notice or care. Maybe people do notice but they see that i am fine with them they are too intimidated to point them out. Although it is funny when they do. The faces they make, haha.
When my mum found out she just went silent and told me to hide them from others. It would have been nice and supportive for your parents to care enough to try and support you to stop. That’s my view from the outside ^_^
I have a large number of scars, but definitely not massive ones. Over 300 on my entire inside forearm. I am also oddly proud of them. It has become my identity, and even if I make it one day, if I do not kill myself, I will never intentionally cover them up.
Right now I walk around and nobody says anything, even with the fresh ones. It validates my “people don’t care” attitude though, which is maybe not good.
I have many scars also, and still continue to cut. I’ve got “Failure” x2, “Fail” “Shame” “Hate” “Thief” etc. I’m terribly addicted to cutting….