I’m addicted to sex.
It’s sad really, I get excited in the beginning, but once it’s happening, the magic dies and it’s numbing. I don’t know why the excitement doesn’t last, but I can’t stop or want him to stop.
Just the feeling of him pushing into me, retreating, entering, leaving, I never want him to stop even though I’m not excited anymore. I guess it’s knowing that even though he leaves me, he’ll always come back on time. It’s maintaining that schedule, the rhythm that I long for.
Even when he’s satisfied, I never want him to stop. If I had it my way, I would want to be fucked 24/7. But toys don’t give me the same satisfaction as real humans. It’s the human connection that makes it much better. It satisfies my need for someone coming back to me. After being abandoned by everyone I knew my whole life, all I really want is someone who’d come back to me regularly.
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Well you hit the nail on the head. It is the love and the care and the affection you are addicted too not the sex. If you were addictaed to sex and the excitment of it then the toys would do the same thing. If you find someone who truly cares and love you then you will love sex for what it is and nothing more.
Speaking from experience here. I have a very high libdo for similiar reasons
Jules xx
If you got to be addicted to something, that’s the one thats the best i guess. I’d be more than happy to help you with your addiction 😉
Lol that did make me laugh.
Looks like you now both have a reason for living 😉
There is help available if you want it
Jules x
I don’t, i’m not a sex addict. I’d prefere alcohol and drugs, they don’t cost as much 🙂
My addiction runs more along the lines of books. movies and games because reality has never been as interesting as the fantasy worlds.
Well I’m a alcoholic so that is my addication.
I just know that in the past I have used sex to feel loved but it dose not work.
I love reading murder mystery books that is my way of esacpe but my husband spends ages gaming that is how he esacpes.
Jules x
Sex was ok.
I found it rather impractical as an activity for the pleasure and fun provided.
And not being a good looking guy and not having a lot of money trying to find a sexual partner was just not worth the work involved.
f-ck having a very high libido ..
that & my overthinking mind will be my downfall
@planningit – from what I’ve read – being a sex addict can be incredibly self destructive and dangerous … particularly for women/girls. their insatiable need to feel loved and needed makes them easy prey for sexual predators and serial killers and other unsavory characters … it also makes them prime targets for STDs.
No – from the outside looking in at just the “sex” aspect – i seems like they’d be a “dream girl” when in reality they are the one girl you’d probably most want to stay away from … which ironically is precisely what the girl does NOT want – rejection.
No – i think sex addiction has a higher potential to cause collateral damage that a drug addict who would be more inclined to withdraw from public interaction.
either way – it’s sad and painful to watch them be unable to control themselves.
sexless dawg
My fiancé has been addicted to porn for 12 years. Is that sort of the same thing? I don’t approve of it and I want him to fully recover before we marry so that I know for sure that im all he needs and wants but I don’t think I’ll ever know.. It sucks. But apart from that he really is the greatest guy and I’m not ‘blinded’ by love or anything. Anyway, I don’t know if it’s the same as being addicted to sex or not.
i’m no expert by any means … but I’d say “no” they are not the same at all … the person addicted to sex physically, is trying to fill a void of emptiness and loneliness and to gain acceptance.
Being “addicted” to porn is more about actual gratification … porn satisfies needs of voyeurism and placates kinkier desires the watcher is either embarrassed to admit are turn-ons or afraid to admit to their partner … or the partner has denied them. On one hand you should be glad he uses porn instead of actually cheating … on the other hand it’s possible he could find the desire for certain acts so compelling that he needs to explore them with someone else.
More often than not – porn is just a convenient way to “release” when the real thing is not available and one has a strong moral believe that infidelity is wrong. It’s not much different than someone on a diet satisfying their “need” for a decadent dessert but only getting the fat-free, low calorie product from the grocery … they’re eating a “bad” thing … but they aren’t actually “cheating” on their diet.. I know the consequences of the two are dramatic but the base premise is similar.
sex dawg
Ahhh, ok. Thanks for that.