so a few days ago. i here from my ex who ignored me for over a month. this is kinda secret since were a long distance thing, my parents say its not healthy to talk to him, well fuck u. so they took my itouch and cell away for either a looooong while or forever. so there goes private contact, so then we start e-mailing and after a week he ignores me for over a month, then wednesday im sure it was he e-mailed me. i was soo happy. then it wet to silence again. well earlier i was home for 7 hrs watching my sis while our rents were out. after 4 hours i took this to my advantage and called my bf using the house phone normally he never answers this time HE DID! so we start talkin then i brought him and i up? i asked “soo we r still tgether right?” his response “idk, we can hardly talk” i explained how itsmy parents fault and we just have to mae an effort. so then he said “i dont know” i say “please i love u” so he says “ok fine, i love u to babe.” i know this is like im forcing everything but i was just playing around then he started singing one of my favorite songs and i sang with him “glad u came” by the wanted. we were laughing and i was just so happy like i said in an earlier post today is a good day. then we kept talking but then i missed one thing the free “i love u’s” u only said it once first when texting its at the end of every other message. but whatever im just very glad ur back. then one thing i asked u “why havent u been talking much” ur reply “oh just havent felt like it” i felt like a last priorty as ur gf but things r harder and they will get better though. so what am i saying in this post?
idk if u mean anything u said to me or if u even care i just know i love u and i wont see u go. i know ur here to stay if i can help it. love is the only reason i live, so i cant lose u. i love u. but now what is love? it seems like the love is partially gone.
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hi fakingit, I read this and hope you allow me to say my point of view yet it might not be supportive. I have no idea how good your relationship with him was in the past but the way you needing him almost reminds me of the way I’m needing someone who’s close to my heart.
When you want something so bad you ignore all the bad things, I seen the bad signs but still went along because I was weak for her. If these words are the same exact words he use to respond “ok fine” “idk, guess i love you” or if you ever heard “what ever” “it doesn’t matter” – these are all signs that he does not love you, he may like you and might care for you, but when you this needy every little thing that seems good turns out to be a reason for staying together.
Trust me on one thing, a person has to say I love you at free will, and this person has to show that they love you by the actions they do, sometimes simply spending time with you is not mean they love you. I just wanted to leave this because when you wrote love is the only reason you live, it made me think of how i had a broken heart before I ever met my first love… think about that. I was setting myself up for heartbreak because I needed love so bad. – just be careful and aware. good luck
hi silentblue, yeah was an interesting call last night, before i had my phone and itouch taken away we were hella close though miles away, he always seemed right there next to me, he said on the phone “cant u just text me” i had to re-explain that we cant do that for some time so now we can e-mail but call on occasions. he just doesnt like the change cuz he really did love me, he said he wanted to marry me, but things happened now yeah its difficult i effen love this guy the 1st few weeks of not talking to him 15hrs a day like we used to i had horrible dreams early morning i always thought he was beside me watching me sleep and i wake up and he aint there. i want the love back cuz obviously i really love him. and thanks for the insight!