today she told him. that she was and is in ove with him. she knows that he is with one of her old friends. but yet he says he loves her. she asks what he wants to do what he will do. he says ignore it. she dosnt want that. but she dosnt want to loose her best friend. but his next words killed her. he said we could be friends with benifits. she answers no. no words are exchanged for weeks she lost him. what to do? help
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From my experience, I would say you should move on. If you don’t want a “friend with benefits” then stick to your guns. Maybe explain how you feel about what he said as best you can, but in the end, it’s his call if he wants to be in a relationship with you, friends or lovers. But don’t get involved in a relationship that you cannot emotionally handle. But don’t worry, you’ll make many more friends in your lifetime. Maybe some just as special.
Thanks and what if he dosnt listen should i still just say it no matter what?
If you feel that is right for you then i agree with stabby. stick to your guns. but if it is something you do want you need to decide for yourself. If it doesnt come around, then maybe he wasnt as good of a friend as you thought? Still i think you shoudl try to met him face to face and talk it out.
‘best friends” respect each other and don’t put them in a position to barter for affection – i say this person was never your “best friend” and if he was/is – he’ll respect your position – but he isn’t the relationship type if he want’s you to “ignore” his other “love interest” – seems to me he’s just a playa – steer clear.
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thanks Stabby you really helped. so did you Dawg