OMFG. why? i text/e-mail/call my bf…i get silence i get vague answers….to questions-_- my friends contact my bf, he doesnt shut up bout how he loves me so much…why cant he tell me that the way he tells my friends:/ he is tryna make them jelous somehow?? idk. by saturday if he doesnt answer somehow…haha 1 week of silence since he came back to me after two months we’ve had some pauses has he claims its my fault cuz i pissed him off. anyway haha the usual. soo homecoming???? my bf lives 1000 miles away, but ive found some good guys that ive been hanging with these past two days in school idk what to do.. i dont wanna be a cheater cuz even though he treats me wrong sometimes i cant seem to leave him…i already know he might take his ex to their homecomin if she isnt taken cuz they still love each other…A LOT i hate myself im the reason they even started datin-_-soo since he is silent again do u guys think i should turn some tables and try to find a possible date or stay loyal and wonder wtf is going on with my bf from miles away?????
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How long is he gona be away? Sucks that you going through it i sort of wen through sometging like that but in my situation the ex was where i was at she hurt me alot. If you love hin dont do him wrong i believe anything sexual should only he done with a persob you love ( hugs nd anything beyond it). But if he does you wrong you should try to let hin go nd find someone else but who am i to say i stuck by with her nd still am. Its getting better for me though it could get hetter for you to
Omg I know how you feel read the post it’s over. I am so confused about,my ex or bf or what ever.he is
Honestly, imo, fuck that shit. Seriously. That’s way too complicated and from the sounds of things, you can find better. If you’re thinking about cheating, odds are it’s not working for you. Don’t tie yourself in a knot over one person; if you’re not happy, leave it. Things will work out, whatever happens, and LDRs are notoriously rough.
forever. dont ask where i met him its just long distanced for 3yrs (if i can move then) and i doubt il be asked out anyway but i wanted to find a better bf at school an leave my current one im just so convinced he’ll change…but eh maybe i should just plan by minute…dont wrry til somthin happens but im very sure we wont make it this year not even as friends..im the bottom of his proiorty list even as his gf:/ that hurts..
Well uhm thats a long time its probably better if you do find someone else the thought of him cheating hurts nd might make you feel miserable. You can find better. If you really trust him and he makes you happy well its up to you
his issue his my phone since its taken from sometime hes pissed he doesnt have easy contact w/ me cuz we’ve NEVER had a problem like this when and and only if i have my phone or borrowing someone else’s
Only you can answer if its worth it or not.. but the fact you are questioning it tells me you hope that its not and that a part of you is also worried it may be time to move on. I know its hard to do.. and a typical answer to this kind of question but you have to tell him how you are feeling.. talk it out. If its worth it, you will know in your heart after talking. I hope all works out love.
id talk to him about it buteverytime i tell him im upset about something (doesnt matter what) he says “im not ganna deal with it so change the subject if u neet to talk to me so badly”
Thats hard. You seem willing to fix things and he sounds stubborn. I’m sure you have a lot to think about.. but make sure, whatever you choose is not because of another guy you may like to be with. Do it because you deserve better, need a positive change, and truely feel like you need to let go. Being single isn’t being alone, we are all here for you on SP too.
i know i wanna break up w/ him but then once its over i WILL want him back and im sure he wouldnt take me back…
List out the pros and cons.. sounds silly but helps get out your thoughts.. helps clear your head.. right out why you want to say, why you want to leave.. things you love about him..and things you hate. Maybe that will help a bit?
maybe…..im just not in the mood to piss him off so i really thinking bout how to say things right now
I hear you, take some time and think it out, it is a big desision.
well wow. everytime i post on here bout how he ignores me he always e-mails me and he did again just now but now i got his attention now im tryna work things out
Good for you. Best of luck hun
thnx(:
id talk to him about it buteverytime i tell him im upset about something (doesnt matter what) he says “im not ganna deal with it so change the subject if u neet to talk to me so badlyâ€
dump this douchebag immediately. thats an abusive relationship.
Ive been in a raging fight with my ex since monday…i know exactly how you feel…