Hello SP
So I have gotten it into my head that I don’t want to be alone anymore. I have been doing much better lately, I have seeing my friends more and I have been nicer in general to everybody. But it is hard and change isn’t coming easy.
everyday is different, some days I feel like a piece of shit and I feel like I deserve to be alone. Other days I feel like I want to find a girl and make her happy, I feel like I would do anything for them to make them happy.
I guess I can feel change creeping in, now I have thoughts like you should go to that party and you should head to the pub tonight, which is odd for me. Its usually stay alone, you are happier that way, soak up some media that will make you happy. But it doesn’t make me happy. Media is my drug and I need to purge myself of it.
I want someone. I want a family. I want to be happy.
I Love You future wifey where ever you are.
Ruins
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Best of luck! I hope you find your happiness <3
Thanks I need all the luck i can get my hands on.
I wish you all the luck in the world aswell 🙂
Eh… heading into the world looking for love when you’re kind of (sorry to say) vulnerable/desperate about it usually doesn’t turn out well. You basically just said your life feels empty and you want to make yourself happy by finding some girl that you can make happy. Healthy romance does not work like that. It should be two people, already happy, coming together to share their lives. You sound like you’re in that state of mind where if you met someone and went on two dates you’d already feel head over heels in love and make your entire life about the relationship and about the girl, and that’s what leads to the type of people you see on websites like this saying they want to die because their relationship just ended and they have nothing to live for. It’s just my opinion, but do not go out into the world looking for love thinking it is going to make you happy or give your life some purpose. That’s not what relationships are for, although it is commonly presented that way in romantic books, movies, etc. Two miserable people coming together and suddenly feeling like life is awesome. But real life isn’t like that. I spent years of my life dating girls and making my relationships the highest priority in my life. The only reason it was fun to wake up in the morning was when I had a girlfriend to talk to a shower all my attention on. But it never lasts and it just hurts to break up and come back to an empty life. Focus on yourself, find other things about life to make you happy. Looking for a person to make you happy is very dangerous because it gives that person a lot of power and if they ever decide to leave you or something else happens, you will feel crushed.
Awww this is so cute, best of luck, and try not to get your heart broken
@ThousandCuts
Thank you, sincerely. you have given me alot to think about. Your words are clear and to the point and make perfect sense. I will think all you have said.
Thank you for taking the time to write this.
Ruins
you sound like a really nice guy.. I’m lonely too. hence the name haha.. hang in there. if I was anywhere close to you (which I doubt I am) we could go get a drink.. hang in there. we’ll find someone.. hopefully
Lols, I am really not, I am shallow and selfish and have a tendency to hurt peoeple :/ sadly.
I hope you find someone too.
PS I live in Europe.
“I love you future wifey” This is so nice and cute! I see that you do have a plan about your future and you know exactly what you want. I also see that you are loyal and willing to sacrifice for your woman… that is so good since men like you are so rare these days.
So sweet.
Good luck, I support you, I believe you can do it.
Lots of love.