Today I told myself every thing’s okay, and that if I don’t think about the future it will stay that way longer. Why do I give myself false hope. Why am I still trying. I know hope is lost so why am I faking. You know what one of the worst feelings is? The feeling that someone could be dead or someone could die and it’s all your fault. When people say I’m going to kill myself because of you. That’s not okay. I was in a relationship where several times the other person said goodbye and that they were not going to be alive the next day and it was all because of me. Someone just told methat they have been crying a long time because of me and the started self harming again. Because I tried to be nice? Because I didn’t know how to be honest with out hurting her? I just don’t understand. Why can’t people just agree. When you want to kill yourself or you attempt don’t tell someone it’s their fault. They will have to live with that pain and the guilt. I personally wouldn’t wish that on anyone. Because it sucks. Luckily the person I know is still alive but I’ve lost all respect for them. But I still feel guilty, what did I do wrong. I hate myself. Why can’t I just do everything right? what goes wrong in the times I fuck up? Why? I feel loneliness creeping up behind me. It rained tonight. I really enjoy rain. I don’t know if it’s the smell of the way it looks but to me it’s perfect. I feel like I have nothing and almost no one. but what does that matter I’m just one person insignificant to the world as a whole. I mean nothing. I am nothing but false hope.
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Don’t compare yourself to the world…most of them are more screwed up than you are. My brother killed himself and the guilt eats me up every day. But you know…I couldn’t have changed that. Even though I feel really responsible I had no way to know my words or actions would lead him to that. Had I known I would have done things differently because like you, I’m not really a bad person. But he didn’t give me a chance to show that. I hate that he’s gone and that I will never get a chance to help him…but I also know I could not have changed his thinking, or his heart or the road he chose.
Don’t beat up on yourself too much. It sounds like you are nice, and considerate of others and if they gave you a chance to improve things you would. That’s all you can do, all you can offer…and if they decide not to except that offer and try to make you feel guilty for their own bad decisions…that still won’t be your fault.
Thanks, you may not have been given the chance to help your brother but you’ve helped me, so thank you.
Glad I could help! Hope you find a way to smile even when others try to take that from you! 🙂