We spend our lives
trying to Be.
Be better.
Be smarter.
Be stronger.
Be prettier.
Just- to Be.
Be someone worthwhile.
Of course we do.
Who doesnt wake up each morning
wth the hope
that someone is going
to fall for us?
We strive for that feeling
of acceptance
and love.
Yet how do we forget
to find love for ourselves;
while we wait for another
to find their love for us?
Oh, how naive the soul
that roams each street alone,
wishing to find somone to love them
enough to take away the pain.
We are raised to believe that love
is the greatest reliever.
It can heal the wounds
and warm the icy blood pulsing through our veins.
We believe that the love of another is enough
to wash away
all pain and suffering.
Oh, how naive the soul that believes
that the love of another
can ever bring
an ounce of love
for oneself.
Another’s love cannot fix the broken.
Cannot heal your wounds.
But can only open them again,
and numb the pain for a little while.
How naive, we are,
to wish for this every day.
4 comments
Well said. Perfectly said, actually.
The problem is, that we believe in love in the first place when there is no such thing.
I agree, most of us (including me) are naive… we doubt ourselves everyday… to accept ourselves, knowing our faults is next to impossible… always in the state of doubt and always wanting some form of reassurance.
oh wow, yes..
I experienced this.. no love for myself, then met a girl.. she loved me.. It felt great, then a after a while I began to realize that I was the same as before.. love had only put a veil over my eyes for a time..
..it really is very naive to believe another person could cure you, unless you can love yourself..
I appreciate this but consider the opposite. Say I love myself truly. In a cold world full of self lovers what meaning can that have. Sometimes I wonder if so many of the people out there that I see as stupidly greedy or totally unaware of the impact of their behavior don’t blindly love themselves quite a bit too much. If they struggled with it as I do maybe they would have more empathy for the misery of those looking for outside themselves and unable to find it. Maybe that would make the world kinder. Just a thought. I appreciate your contribution.