I wish anybody would hit on me.

Notice how: the guys who have been treated acceptably by women, defend them… in a very “generalized” way… while citing “generalizations” as the flaw in their opponents’ reasoning, and even resorting to personal attacks… as if somehow, allowing someone to voice their dissenting opinion, might cause a problem for the generalized-defenders… like there’s some prize awaiting their maxed-out cyber-image approval-rating. Do most women like hypocrites? (birds of a feather..?) Or are most of them too stupid to notice hypocrisy when slathered in it? OR: is it the worst of the possible scenarios, and that “most women” are disgusting hypocrites, who also hate “everyone else” who is a hypocrite? (unless they can get something they want from that person; in which case they will almost always use that person for whatever usefulness, while incessantly complaining about it… even though they’re getting what they want!)

The truth is that “MrBaDGUY” is not incorrect; there IS a DEFINITE and OBVIOUS modern “trend,” involving MANY (if not most!) women, behaving as “sluttily” as possible, because they’re taught that’s “cool.” (and because hey, who doesn’t like to get fucked as often as possible right?)

I’m not “back.”

I just couldn’t help but identify with the OP, and initially resisted the urge to chime-in, because honestly, fuck everything, why comment? But then i saw something that actually required intervention. So here it is.

@John:

You think 1 year is bad? Try 9. And then a “stupid disgusting whore,” followed by another 4 (and counting).

I know people will tell you i’m wrong, but women want a beast of a man, who knows how to control himself, and does/provides everything she wants. THAT is what they want. Everything else is bullshit. Make yourself a beast, or give up. Playing “middle-man” isn’t going to get YOU what YOU want. Go all-in, all or nothing. YOLO, so you might as well, while you’re still not too far gone to come rip-roaring back with a vengeance.

But if that just sounds like way too much hassle and BS, and probably not possible… i totally understand.

And in closing, i’ll go ahead and disclaim this: yes, there are plenty very shitty males in this world as well. This is why i tend to think that this whole stupid argument should never happen. Some of us have indeed opened our eyes and had a long and deep look around, and seen plenty of people who fully deserve to be called exactly the pieces of shit they really are. Unfortunately, some of us have seen that this applies to “most women” (or “most men,” depending on the looker).

So let’s just say “most people,” and drop the gender part. It’s superfluous. Sure, we could over-analyze the piss out of it, and probably find some relevant nuance… but the real problem is that people are just shit… well, most people. The few elites who run the world, do so by exploiting how fucking stupid and easily mislead most of us really are. And we just keep feeding into it.

But really… what could we even do about it, even if we tried? (rhetorical question)